Relationship Why Is He So Mean? Please Help Me Understand...

[Nicolette]

We were planning to get married, move into an apartment and have another child. Even just four days before breaking up we were talking about looking at places to live. Then all of a sudden he starts telling me that I make him and his life miserable.

Without knowing him or the situation, and strictly thinking PTSD, I see stress overload written all over this - getting married, moving house and another baby all at once.... maybe it's all too much at once for him? The fact that moving was becoming a reality by talking about it may have just been too much for him to cope.

The thought of moving house makes me feel overwhelmed and it's something that I dread. I'd live in the same place until I died if I liked it and could. While he may be coping better now, just the thought of moving may be something which was too much for his stress levels even though he likes the concept of your dreams together?