desert4now
Learning
Hello Everyone,
If the PTSD sufferer knows there is a problem, knows what the problem is, knows PTSD affects and hurts others around them, why will he not try to get help and make changes? Is that also part of the disorder?
Hubby is so intelligent so the fact that he won't get help of any kind, baffles me! Is it wrong of me to think if he gets help, then he won't have an excuse for his actions and words? I don't mean to be mean but it is so frustrating.
I must admit, I'm jealous of those who's partners are seeking help. Mine doesn't seem to want to get to that point. I just really want to understand. I'm emotionally exhausted and so tired of hurting. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Lately, I'm afraid to address this issue with him at all...add that to the list of other things I would like to talk to him about. Let's face it, even idle chit chat with him scares me. Kerrie-Ann I think my kicking boots fell off this week. I need help getting them back on. I feel beaten up.
If the PTSD sufferer knows there is a problem, knows what the problem is, knows PTSD affects and hurts others around them, why will he not try to get help and make changes? Is that also part of the disorder?
Hubby is so intelligent so the fact that he won't get help of any kind, baffles me! Is it wrong of me to think if he gets help, then he won't have an excuse for his actions and words? I don't mean to be mean but it is so frustrating.
I must admit, I'm jealous of those who's partners are seeking help. Mine doesn't seem to want to get to that point. I just really want to understand. I'm emotionally exhausted and so tired of hurting. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Lately, I'm afraid to address this issue with him at all...add that to the list of other things I would like to talk to him about. Let's face it, even idle chit chat with him scares me. Kerrie-Ann I think my kicking boots fell off this week. I need help getting them back on. I feel beaten up.