Relationship Can I Please Get Some Advice

[Deleted member 34191]

Me and my ex girlfriend was experamenting and my girlfriend went in an episode where her eyes was open and she was still mouning like before she went in to it but i carried on kissing and sucking her boob as i honestly thought she was fine and had never seen her have an episode as it was the first ever time we spent the night together but now i feel bad and had reported my self for sexual assult on her

 

[BlueDream]

When you say she had an episode, what do you mean by that?

 

[Deleted member 34191]

When you say she had an episode, what do you mean by that?

Her eyes was open and she was still mouning but she seemed to wake up an ask what was happening

 

[Deleted member 34191]

When you say she had an episode, what do you mean by that?

She seemed to be fine and still enjoying it but she seemed to then come out of it but was not awere of what was happening

 

[EveHarrington]

You didn't sexually assault her.

You had no way of knowing what was going on.

She consented on some level I am assuming.

If she cannot remain grounded in the present moment and ends up unknowingly having sex then perhaps she should be abstaining from sexual activity and even relationships altogether?

I don't think you deserve a criminal record for this------not in the least.

 

[BlueDream]

Did she consente to have sex?
Did you talk during/after?
I don't understand why you feel as though you assaulted her.

 

[Deleted member 34191]

She seemed ok and still happy with things and she had her eyes open and was still mouning like before it and then she seemed to come out of the episode and was not awere of what was happening

 

[Deleted member 34191]

Did she consente to have sex?
Did you talk during/after?
I don't understand why you feel as though y...

No we did not have sex but everything up to it and yes she did give consente

 

[BlueDream]

Then you did nothing wrong.

I know for me, all it takes is one stray thought during sex and I can disassociate, but that does not mean that what I consented to has now become assult.

What did the police say?

 

[Deleted member 34191]

You didn't sexually assault her.

You had no way of knowing what was going on.

She consented o...

Yes she did give consente

 

[Deleted member 34191]

Then you did nothing wrong.

I know for me, all it takes is one stray thought during sex and I can d...

I needed an lawyer

 

[EveHarrington]

I think it's for the best that she's an ex.