General He Moved Out!

[Vickym]

Well he moved out. Finally I couldn't take any more. Unfortunatley he still has a bunch of things here. Its as if he is dragging this out.

I have been firm and told him to get it out but he always has an excuse. Not to mention he owes me money and doesn't seem to have that either.

When it comes down to it I know I made the best choice for me and for my kids. Life is so much calmer and not so tense. He was very nasty to me this past month. Saying things i never ever thought I would hear him say. Im just sick over how he changed.

I dont know who he has become at this point. The sad part is my 13 year old son said to me " I don't know who he is or whats wrong with him hes not the same"

PTSD effects all involed. I know in my heart I made the right choice for myself and my kids. It was one of the hardest choices I have had to make in life. But in the end someone has to help themselves you can't help them.

 

[ISupportHer]

That must have been such a hard decision to arrive at as well as be living through. I applaud your courage.

Just want you to know I'm thinking of you during this transition in your lives. (You and your son)

 

[amethist]

Remember what I said to you before Vickym, you can do this and you wil get through it.

Good luck, best wishes ansd stay strong.

Amethist.

 

[Nicolette]

PTSD effects all involed. I know in my heart I made the right choice for myself and my kids. It was one of the hardest choices I have had to make in life. But in the end someone has to help themselves you can't help them.

Unfortunate but so true Vicky.

Well done on having the courage and strength to do what is right for you and your family first. I am sorry you lost the man you loved but you now have peace and a safe and healthy environment and that is so much better for all concerned.