What emotion do you dislike most in yourself?

[Deleted member 37085]

Same as what @Albatross above-shared...

 

[DharmaGirl]

It's hopelessness for me. And judgement. I don't know if judgement is an emotion, but I hate when I feel judgemental towards other people. I often don't know their story. I learn this again and again. Mine is not the only viewpoint, lol.

 

[Deleted member 37085]

LOL! I never @dharma Girl was allowed throughout my familial life (until father passed in '08) to have a point of view? What's that? So now I am learning to try and listen and cultivate my own opinion and feelings and thoughts on any given subject on any given day. And I am so excited also overwhelmed to do so. I don't want to judge or...for that matter be judged..I'm too busy in self-exploration and discovery of my lost self.

 

[Teasel]

First came to mind the frozen panic shameful worthlessness that often overtakes in social situations. So humiliating.

Then I read you talking about feeling suicidal @SheilaKathy and yes, that is absolutely worse.

As is hopelessness. I think when I feel hopeless I do feel suicidal...

 

[Chiqui]

I never thought I would say this, but envy. When I see others lives and I compare them with mine.

 

[420kitty]

Jealousy and anger are the emotions I don't like.

 

[Changing4Best]

I can relate. I have dealt with jealousy this week. I have a friend that I usually sit with on Thursday evenings at a supper we both go to. Recently she has been sitting with a woman I do not know, and spending the whole time talking with that woman, and basically ignoring me.

Today, I had a chance to really see what I am missing, because at lunch, when we both sat together, that other woman was not there. Then she did not ignore me like she has been. When I got home just now, I realized I was jealous of that other woman and the attention my friend has been giving to her.

Then I read your note, @420kitty and said, to myself, well, at least I am not alone in this! I don't like feeling this way either!

 

[EveHarrington]

I hate fear the most.

Anger does the most damage.

The absence of both is when happiness is most possible.

 

[Changing4Best]

Speaking of HAPPINESS, Myself and Dharmagirl will be leading a HAPPINESS CHALLENGE in a few days, if not sooner. We will let you know when we start it. It will be a 21 day Challenge and it has 5 things that we are to do each day to raise HAPPINESS. I'll post a link here, when the time comes.

 

[Changing4Best]

And, for those of you who would like to be more happy, maybe you would be interested in this: (instead of these emotions we so dislike in ourselves):

Would anyone be interested in a happiness challege?

 

[Deleted member 42783]

Feeling weak. Don't think that's really an emotion. Helpless to fix a situation? That's the worst. The inability to help.

I would say, wanting to feel wanted is a close second.

 

[Deleted member 42783]

I guess the above adds up to feeling worthless.