Boyfriend not responding?

[Abstract]

It depends on him and your relationship. It may be fine if there is no pressure. But you also need to look after yourself at some point. If its too much for you you get to say that.

 

[Jay02]

It depends on him and your relationship. It may be fine if there is no pressure. But you also need to look after yourself at some point. If its too much for you you get to say that.

Thank you so much! He's said before that I don't bother him and that my texts do bring him back to reality, but I've lived my entire life being a burden and an annoyance to many people (including family), that it's a bit difficult to shake that feeling off and it's even more prominent when he doesn't respond. I do feel like I hound him with messages, even if they're spaced out from the beginning of the day until the end. But, regardless, I appreciate the advice. I started a new thread in hopes that other people can chime in and help me learn from their experiences and whatnot.

 

[Abstract]

That sounds great. Essentially everyone is unique so although you see trends its still an individual thing. And you need to be look after yourself too.

If you haven't seen this thread then it may be interesting. Your boyfriend sounds like he has a healthier attitude than some though so remember who he is as an individual. If you arent in therapy yourself it sounds wise to do.
General - What are they thinking?

 

[Jay02]

That sounds great. Essentially everyone is unique so although you see trends its still an individual thing. And you need to be look after yourself too.

If you haven't seen this thread then it may be interesting. Your boyfriend sounds like he has a healthier attitude than some though so remember who he is as an individual. If you arent in therapy yourself it sounds wise to do.
General - What are they thinking?

I will definitely look at this thread! Thank you so much... Honestly, you're right. I gotta look after myself. It just seems selfish to do so when he's possibly in a rut. :-(

 

[Jay02]

That sounds great. Essentially everyone is unique so although you see trends its still an individual thing. And you need to be look after yourself too.

If you haven't seen this thread then it may be interesting. Your boyfriend sounds like he has a healthier attitude than some though so remember who he is as an individual. If you arent in therapy yourself it sounds wise to do.
General - What are they thinking?

Definitely need more advice because I'm freaking out... My boyfriend just deleted all of his social media (which he doesn't do whenever he's in a rut). I'm honestly at a loss... I'm just concerned even more so now...

 

[blackemerald1]

Does he live alone? What other supports does he have? Could you contact one of those supports and check if he is talking to them? Just so you know he is safe...

 

[Jay02]

Does he live alone? What other supports does he have? Could you contact one of those supports and check if he is talking to them? Just so you know he is safe...

I ended up contacting his brother and about twenty minutes later, my boyfriend texted me to tell me what was going on.