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Contacting her to tell her you’re not contacting her… is nuts.I’m now playing with the idea of writing her a letter. My aim is to once and for all, make it clear I’ I’m not contacting her again
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Contacting her to tell her you’re not contacting her… is nuts.I’m now playing with the idea of writing her a letter. My aim is to once and for all, make it clear I’ I’m not contacting her again
holy crap the lengths your mom is willing to go to just to try to control you is astounding.I don’t want to get back in touch. But, more than that, I want no part in it at all. And I’ve already been dragged in indirectly because I’m the only one who knows the social worker’s number. And it’s not fair that the neighbour is left dealing with my crazy ass mother. Neither is it fair for me to I suppose.
neighbor? Her boundaries are hers to control. If she chooses to let herself be used by your mom, to try to intervene, to try to help
Thank you! You’ve no idea how much I needed to read these replies.them. She can also keep her thoughts to herself about what she thinks you should do
I get it. Not horrible, you did not make yourself feel that way.Thank you! You’ve no idea how much I needed to read these replies.
As for blocking the neighbour, no I don’t think I’m at that point. Yet.
It’s so triggering though it’s just awful. I’d have rather have had a phone call telling me she’d been found dead. Is that horrible? Probably. But it’s the truth.
I used to regularly get to smack people upside the head who’d give me grief about completely blocking my MIL from my & my son’s lifeBut it was so hard hearing this neighbour, especially when it got to the whole “I don’t know what’s happened between you but you really should get in touch”. Yeah, sorry lady, it must suck living next door but that’s not happening.
But my head is f*cked now.
Firstly, holy sh*t. I read that and laughed and thought ‘I’m stealing that line’ (she did give N access to me in exchange for stuff) and then I read the rest of what you wrote and wowee.don’t associate with people who sell children to pedophiles. I’m surprised you advocate for children to be raped. I hadn’t taken you for the type
Aye, this. People just can’t comprehend it huh? Which adds to the shame and the feeling not believed. Probably actually not believed because it’s beyond their ability to comprehend.But Their idea of a problem in a family, is someone refusing a hair cut, or not being invited to a celebration, or taking an arts degree instead of a law degree
not horrible at all. It's totally understandableI’d have rather have had a phone call telling me she’d been found dead. Is that horrible? Probably. But it’s the truth.