I need help keeping him away from me. He works for the County and although he’s broken several Laws the county Police Department have lied for him and have threatened me with arrest If I request charges or an order of protection. Nobody will even agree to let me submit the overwhelming amount of proof that I have, including that of illegal activities. I see all these experts show up AFTER somebody’s dead and point out all of the glaring red flags and obvious police misconduct. Is there anybody who does that BEFORE somebody dies????
My son, 18, is so much worse now. Despite years of trying to find qualified help for him. Completely shut down. I’m being told he may have to be committed. He does absolutely nothing for himself and flies into a rage over every single thing. He works just enough to buy weed and alcohol and is furious if asked to do a minute more. He refuses to leave his room. Nobody can even talk to him. Nobody. Nobody is even willing to anymore. Every single thing enrages him. He is completely dependent. Completely irrational. Completely out of touch with reality. I've gone into so much debt begging "professionals" who all say "He says he's fine". They say they "see it" but can't help him until he sees it for himself.
My husband is hoovering our daughter (10). Exactly as he did with Tobin at that age. spoiling her and brainwashing her. He has her spying for him. He's unrelenting in his abuse of me. Stalking, harassing, threatening me. My days are filled with flashbacks, anxiety attacks and panic attacks. I jump at every sound. I can't sleep for more than a couple hours at a time. My stomach and nervous system barely allow me to eat. It's become painful. Friends who have tried to help are targeted by him now, they are terrified of him and won't dare be around anymore. Friends who have supported and encouraged me are telling me I have to flee. I have to get out. I cant stay and fight for either of my children anymore. They Are begging me to flee with what I can carry. To leave my kids. My Husbands Pathological traits are evident to the consultants that I have submitted what I have too. Grooming behaviors. Predatory behaviors. Dangerous, Risky behavior. I even spoke with Dr. Craig Childress in California, who I'm not a fan of, but he has a lot of research. And he had a spot at only $200 dollars. He usually advocates for split parenting even with pathological parents. He said to look at the "Dark Triad research". He said he is dangerous. He said try to get my daughter away. I've collected quite a bit of his correspondences that I found on devices he had left accounts open on. What I have found is horrifying. He has several more files that are locked and encrypted. I can't imagine what those files hold. He has several victims at a time, he adds and subtracts victims on an ongoing basis. My husbands parents are the same. They have an "adopted Daughter" Who has been brainwashed and abused. They stole her from her mother. They "took her mother in" and promised to help her escape a bad marriage and as soon as they did they turned on her. They set her up from the beginning and convinced everybody she was crazy. Harassed and psychologically tormented her into extreme cognitive dissonance then pointed to her "mental health issues" in family court. Nobody will listen to me. Nobody will even look at what I have. I have tons of proof. Nobody will help us.
WHERE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO CAN HELP US. PLEASE.
My son, 18, is so much worse now. Despite years of trying to find qualified help for him. Completely shut down. I’m being told he may have to be committed. He does absolutely nothing for himself and flies into a rage over every single thing. He works just enough to buy weed and alcohol and is furious if asked to do a minute more. He refuses to leave his room. Nobody can even talk to him. Nobody. Nobody is even willing to anymore. Every single thing enrages him. He is completely dependent. Completely irrational. Completely out of touch with reality. I've gone into so much debt begging "professionals" who all say "He says he's fine". They say they "see it" but can't help him until he sees it for himself.
My husband is hoovering our daughter (10). Exactly as he did with Tobin at that age. spoiling her and brainwashing her. He has her spying for him. He's unrelenting in his abuse of me. Stalking, harassing, threatening me. My days are filled with flashbacks, anxiety attacks and panic attacks. I jump at every sound. I can't sleep for more than a couple hours at a time. My stomach and nervous system barely allow me to eat. It's become painful. Friends who have tried to help are targeted by him now, they are terrified of him and won't dare be around anymore. Friends who have supported and encouraged me are telling me I have to flee. I have to get out. I cant stay and fight for either of my children anymore. They Are begging me to flee with what I can carry. To leave my kids. My Husbands Pathological traits are evident to the consultants that I have submitted what I have too. Grooming behaviors. Predatory behaviors. Dangerous, Risky behavior. I even spoke with Dr. Craig Childress in California, who I'm not a fan of, but he has a lot of research. And he had a spot at only $200 dollars. He usually advocates for split parenting even with pathological parents. He said to look at the "Dark Triad research". He said he is dangerous. He said try to get my daughter away. I've collected quite a bit of his correspondences that I found on devices he had left accounts open on. What I have found is horrifying. He has several more files that are locked and encrypted. I can't imagine what those files hold. He has several victims at a time, he adds and subtracts victims on an ongoing basis. My husbands parents are the same. They have an "adopted Daughter" Who has been brainwashed and abused. They stole her from her mother. They "took her mother in" and promised to help her escape a bad marriage and as soon as they did they turned on her. They set her up from the beginning and convinced everybody she was crazy. Harassed and psychologically tormented her into extreme cognitive dissonance then pointed to her "mental health issues" in family court. Nobody will listen to me. Nobody will even look at what I have. I have tons of proof. Nobody will help us.
WHERE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO CAN HELP US. PLEASE.
