Sufferer Need legal help

[Traseaann]

I need help keeping him away from me. He works for the County and although he’s broken several Laws the county Police Department have lied for him and have threatened me with arrest If I request charges or an order of protection. Nobody will even agree to let me submit the overwhelming amount of proof that I have, including that of illegal activities. I see all these experts show up AFTER somebody’s dead and point out all of the glaring red flags and obvious police misconduct. Is there anybody who does that BEFORE somebody dies????


My son, 18, is so much worse now. Despite years of trying to find qualified help for him. Completely shut down. I’m being told he may have to be committed. He does absolutely nothing for himself and flies into a rage over every single thing. He works just enough to buy weed and alcohol and is furious if asked to do a minute more. He refuses to leave his room. Nobody can even talk to him. Nobody. Nobody is even willing to anymore. Every single thing enrages him. He is completely dependent. Completely irrational. Completely out of touch with reality. I've gone into so much debt begging "professionals" who all say "He says he's fine". They say they "see it" but can't help him until he sees it for himself.


My husband is hoovering our daughter (10). Exactly as he did with Tobin at that age. spoiling her and brainwashing her. He has her spying for him. He's unrelenting in his abuse of me. Stalking, harassing, threatening me. My days are filled with flashbacks, anxiety attacks and panic attacks. I jump at every sound. I can't sleep for more than a couple hours at a time. My stomach and nervous system barely allow me to eat. It's become painful. Friends who have tried to help are targeted by him now, they are terrified of him and won't dare be around anymore. Friends who have supported and encouraged me are telling me I have to flee. I have to get out. I cant stay and fight for either of my children anymore. They Are begging me to flee with what I can carry. To leave my kids. My Husbands Pathological traits are evident to the consultants that I have submitted what I have too. Grooming behaviors. Predatory behaviors. Dangerous, Risky behavior. I even spoke with Dr. Craig Childress in California, who I'm not a fan of, but he has a lot of research. And he had a spot at only $200 dollars. He usually advocates for split parenting even with pathological parents. He said to look at the "Dark Triad research". He said he is dangerous. He said try to get my daughter away. I've collected quite a bit of his correspondences that I found on devices he had left accounts open on. What I have found is horrifying. He has several more files that are locked and encrypted. I can't imagine what those files hold. He has several victims at a time, he adds and subtracts victims on an ongoing basis. My husbands parents are the same. They have an "adopted Daughter" Who has been brainwashed and abused. They stole her from her mother. They "took her mother in" and promised to help her escape a bad marriage and as soon as they did they turned on her. They set her up from the beginning and convinced everybody she was crazy. Harassed and psychologically tormented her into extreme cognitive dissonance then pointed to her "mental health issues" in family court. Nobody will listen to me. Nobody will even look at what I have. I have tons of proof. Nobody will help us.


WHERE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO CAN HELP US. PLEASE.

 

[Riley Jones]

I need help keeping him away from me. He works for the County and although he’s broken several Laws the county Police Department have lied for him and have threatened me with arrest If I request charges or an order of protection. Nobody will even agree to let me submit the overwhelming amount of proof that I have, including that of illegal activities. I see all these experts show up AFTER somebody’s dead and point out all of the glaring red flags and obvious police misconduct. Is there anybody who does that BEFORE somebody dies????


My son, 18, is so much worse now. Despite years of trying to find qualified help for him. Completely shut down. I’m being told he may have to be committed. He does absolutely nothing for himself and flies into a rage over every single thing. He works just enough to buy weed and alcohol and is furious if asked to do a minute more. He refuses to leave his room. Nobody can even talk to him. Nobody. Nobody is even willing to anymore. Every single thing enrages him. He is completely dependent. Completely irrational. Completely out of touch with reality. I've gone into so much debt begging "professionals" who all say "He says he's fine". They say they "see it" but can't help him until he sees it for himself.


My husband is hoovering our daughter (10). Exactly as he did with Tobin at that age. spoiling her and brainwashing her. He has her spying for him. He's unrelenting in his abuse of me. Stalking, harassing, threatening me. My days are filled with flashbacks, anxiety attacks and panic attacks. I jump at every sound. I can't sleep for more than a couple hours at a time. My stomach and nervous system barely allow me to eat. It's become painful. Friends who have tried to help are targeted by him now, they are terrified of him and won't dare be around anymore. Friends who have supported and encouraged me are telling me I have to flee. I have to get out. I cant stay and fight for either of my children anymore. They Are begging me to flee with what I can carry. To leave my kids. My Husbands Pathological traits are evident to the consultants that I have submitted what I have too. Grooming behaviors. Predatory behaviors. Dangerous, Risky behavior. I even spoke with Dr. Craig Childress in California, who I'm not a fan of, but he has a lot of research. And he had a spot at only $200 dollars. He usually advocates for split parenting even with pathological parents. He said to look at the "Dark Triad research". He said he is dangerous. He said try to get my daughter away. I've collected quite a bit of his correspondences that I found on devices he had left accounts open on. What I have found is horrifying. He has several more files that are locked and encrypted. I can't imagine what those files hold. He has several victims at a time, he adds and subtracts victims on an ongoing basis. My husbands parents are the same. They have an "adopted Daughter" Who has been brainwashed and abused. They stole her from her mother. They "took her mother in" and promised to help her escape a bad marriage and as soon as they did they turned on her. They set her up from the beginning and convinced everybody she was crazy. Harassed and psychologically tormented her into extreme cognitive dissonance then pointed to her "mental health issues" in family court. Nobody will listen to me. Nobody will even look at what I have. I have tons of proof. Nobody will help us.


WHERE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO CAN HELP US. PLEASE.

I am truly sorry to hear about the overwhelming and distressing situation you are going through. It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of challenges and feeling very alone in this. It's important to know that you are not alone, and there are people who can help you and your family through this difficult time.

It's clear that your son, husband, and daughter are going through tough situations that are affecting their mental and emotional well-being. Seeking professional help for your son is crucial, especially if he is showing signs of being a danger to himself or others. It might be beneficial to explore options for him to receive the care and support he needs, including possibly considering a commitment for his safety.

Regarding your husband's behavior and the impact it is having on you and your daughter, it's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being. If you are feeling threatened or abused, reaching out to local domestic violence resources or organizations can provide you with the necessary support and guidance to address the situation effectively.

I understand your frustration with feeling like your evidence and concerns are not being taken seriously by authorities or professionals. It can be incredibly disheartening when seeking help seems to lead nowhere. In such cases, it might be helpful to reach out to different advocacy organizations or legal aid services that specialize in supporting individuals in situations like yours.

Although I am here to provide support and guidance, I strongly encourage you to also seek help from local resources, such as therapists, support groups, or crisis hotlines, for immediate assistance. Additionally, considering joining the forums on myptsd.com can provide you with a supportive community of individuals who understand what you are going through and can offer valuable insights and advice based on their own experiences.

Remember, your safety and well-being, as well as that of your children, are of the utmost importance. Please take care of yourself and seek help from professionals who can support you through this challenging time. You are not alone, and there are people who care and want to help.

 

[Rose White]

I have a nasty ex who alienated me against my kids too. Blocked professional help—two of my kids became addicts. Basically I had to continually call police and get CPS involved but the only thing that really helped was when my son started committing crimes. Because then he got a PO and now he’s forced to go to school and can’t drink and do drugs. It’s terrible that they have to be convicted to get help. But that’s what people told me for years—“Pray that he gets arrested.” It’s terrible and I’m sorry you’re in it.