What Are You Feeling Today? Not Thinking, Rather Feeling! Can You Identify Yours?

[AngelaMarie]

Cozy. It's raining and quiet! A day at home with the boys watching films and cooking!:):inlove:

 

[Queen Boudica]

Worried and stressed. Worried that I haven't budgeted correctly, worried I am spending too much, worried I've done the application for benefit all wrong, cause I just can't get my head round all the finance stuff. worried I won't get parenting benefit or enough tax benefit. Worried I will never be able to work or study in this state, so how am I ever going to manage financially?

 

[Sazza]

I am frustrated that everything have been through over the last few weeks has been for nothing, got my test results today and all was ok not the result i wanted. Now i am not sure what to do i feel all over the place.

 

[CraftyCath]

I am getting fed up of waking up and feeling like there is no point getting up! I feel like I'm living in the film 'Groundhog Day,' I'm constantly tired and I don't know why. I really need to see my T but that isn't until Friday so I will have to e-mail him.

 

[AngelaMarie]

Worried and stressed. Worried that I haven't budgeted correctly, worried I am spending too much, worried I've done the application for benefit all wrong, cause I just can't get my head round all the finance stuff.

(((Lizio))) I have had to worry about money most of my life. Especially the last years I was married to my ex and now. I know what it's like to drive myself crazy with worry. I just recently got some news that has the money cutting back once again. I decided this time to take it day by day and be glad for the fact the right now everything is okay. I have noticed some how or another over my lifetime things seem to work out some how. Maybe you can try it?! Wishing you peace and the ability to deal well!

 

[KP the nut]

I feel scared and anxious. I didn't sleep well, my accident kept replaying in my mind. I keep receiving letters from my lawyers (who have just changed names), I just want the compensation claim to be over. I have to see at least three consultants for them to do reports - I hate strange doctors in unfamiliar surroundings.

My first appointment is in a nearby city - yeah great thinking, send someone nervous of driving in traffic into a city. Luckily H will come with me and do the driving. I suspect I may be on diazepam or essential lemon oil or both :(

 

[CraftyCath]

((((KP)))) Lawyers don't half drag things out, I hope it gets sorted soon.

Set targets on your day to the city. Tell yourself that when it is over you can go do something nice with your H. when I did my return to Carlisle I stopped at every service station, did my SUDS and breathing and then moved on. I was so relaxed when I got there you wouldn't think it was where one of my major traumas happened. I visited the 'scary places' and then me and H had a lovely meal together to celebrate!

let us know when you are going KP and we will hold your hand.

 

[amethist]

KP to which ever specialists you see for your reports, tell them how bad it gets, not how good it is. Always, always give them the worst case scenario's.

It will be almost 5 years since the day of my husbands accident KP, when all this is finalized. Because the legal team wanted to see how it went before they made a decision on the final amount.

May sound off, but the longer it takes for you to get to a reasonable point, the more likely it is you will get a fair and decent payout. Thats not being greedy, just fair compensation for what you have had to and will have to endure.

 

[KP the nut]

KP to which ever specialists you see for your reports, tell them how bad it gets, not how good it is. Always, always give them the worst case scenario's..

I will, H will be with me to tell the bits I forget. It is hard to admit it to a stranger though.
Thanks Amethist

 

[Srain]

happy and some relief from pain...nothing like a note from a friend in the morning :)

 

[amethist]

If they are on your legal side, go for it KP.

Hubby did and the guy was brilliant, even to the point of suggesting that some things were worse than he had told him, causing hubby to tremble so much, I had to take over from there. Second time I had it all typed out ready, less stress for hubby less time spent there. Plus if you dont agree to how it is written once you get your copy, you have chance to change it.

Maybe we should continue this away from this thread as it is getting a bit off topic now.

Send me a PC KP about anything you need to know, hubby has been through it all now, so we have the knowledge. :tup:

 

[Srain]

((((((((((((((Sazza)))))))))))))))

I really get it about the test coming back "okay"...on the surface it looks "fine" ( I really do hate that word sometimes ) but what it now means is you don't know what is wrong. That means more researching. You know your body, you know something isn't right. I feel for you I really do. Sometimes it takes getting someone else looking at the results to begin the search again...something IS WRONG. Don't give up...I believe.

peace and faith,
Rain