Destructive Words

[Tanishq]

Oh calijean, that is difficult to hear something like that you are pretending to have ptsd.

Most ridiculous thing is people who believe in god and mercy, become non compassionate. lol. They need to check themselves. This spiritual healer wants to be leader in future. I don't think so that she is leading this group. She talks to other members, gathers information from others, others!:O_o: Even if it is projection or judgement from others, this healer will accept it and is running group I think. in my opinion, she is far from leading a group. I believe she is real master, but she really needs to spend time on thinking about this. Harsh words due to judgement or lack of perception can knock down any one.

*hugs*

 

[Tanishq]

This person and me have started speaking again. I am being careful with them. We spoke that how are things going on, they sent me some strength because they saw my wall posts on FB. They are understanding that I am having very bad time of my life. Thankful to them.

 

[Whitneys story]

((((((Jaret)))))). Happy New Year! You have been working very hard for yourself! My wish for you this year is to use caution.

You have learned much about others. You are learning to hear what they are saying. Always use caution when responding.

This is about your life and wishes. Keep searching for the right therapist. I read and retread the articles on the homepage. They are excellent reminders for us! Behemoth hugs, Whitney

 

[Tanishq]

Happy New Year! You have been working very hard for yourself! My wish for you this year is to use caution.

Whitney, you forgot so easily that we wished each other Happy New Year in PC. :(

My wish for you this year is to use caution.

Frankly, I never thought of being cautioned. I think this is why some people beat me mentally, verbally like a doormat.

Thank you for this advice. Appreciated muchly.

Keep searching for the right therapist. I read and retread the articles on the homepage. They are excellent reminders for us! Behemoth hugs, Whitney

Yes I will keep searching for therapist.

I do read and I like the awareness Anthony spreads here.

Behemoth Hugs back at you,too Whitney. :hug:

Btw, the whole evening has been different today. I get to learn things I never thought of, never paid attention.

 

[Whitneys story]

Jaret, I remembered, I just wanted to say again:). This will be a very good year! More hugs back, Whitney

 

[Tanishq]

This will be a very good year! More hugs back, Whitney

Oh! You should have typed that and would have stopped me from saying those words.

Let's forget that. Ok, Wishing you again very happy new year. :D

I wish the same for you. Tool bag will travel and we all will succeed in our wishes and lives.
:hug:

Warm Regards,
Jaret

 

[Tanishq]

I can't believe what they said. They were saying I can message them any time I wish. Well, I stopped sending messages to them because I felt I might be being very annoying with them. They may get annoyed with me because I have lots of issues including communication.

Now it is making me feel that they are wanting balanced friendship with me. They looked back and noticed it was one sided friendship. I am glad. I was thinking, may be they want distance from me. I will post messages to them timely. I have never heard such things.

 

[safenow]

Jaret, you are welcome to message me anytime you want. I like hearing from you.

safenow

 

[Tanishq]

I like hearing from you.

Thank you so much safenow. That means a lot. I do like to converse with you and gain something new. I will send you message and will stay in your touch. :)

You are so kind. Safe and gentle hug to you. :hug:

 

[Phenioxrising]

Jaret
One thing that keeps me out of conflict and resenting people for not beliveing something said; is that they don't know your truth. No one can truely understand you unless they live with you 24/7.

Also unless they follow you to the bathroom. LOL

I've learned to take things with a grain of salt, and accept that I'm different. If someone else dosn't like that, thats their problem. If they truely want to still be friends, they will eventually get over themselves and initiate contact.

 

[Tanishq]

Also unless they follow you to the bathroom. LOL

:D

Thanks Phenioxrising, for your thoughts.

 

[Sailorgal]

I think as humans we typically fall into "I won't believe it until it happens to me." It is disheartening no doubt to hear someone say they don't believe.

I had a frank discussion with my friend about this telling her what happened to ME is ME. Whether it's unique, whether you believe it or not, it doesn't matter. It happened and you can't say it didn't, just like when she told me an opposite scenario, I said "no, that's not true because it didn't happen to me."

Just because no one is in the forest doesn't mean it doesn't make a sound when it falls.

How you respond really depends on the situation. On a sarcastic note, you could mention, "hey, next time you pay for my meds since it's not real, ok?"

I think some people have a difficult time saying "wow, that is shocking or hard to believe" and instead say "I don't believe you" and "that's not true."

Sometimes you have to just....stop caring.