Fibroids And Heavy Bleeding

[Chava]

p.s. yes yes to music! I read some research where music was more relaxing than taking a pill (benzo) for patients undergoing some anxiety-provoking procedure. As a musician I read up on this stuff...but should have had an I-pod for the biopsy (yet helpful to hear what doctor is telling me, describing what she will do and what I will feel... but I was at least singing loudly in my head.

Another option, I didn't realize existed: a shot to put your body into menopause. ?? My doctor mentioned it for me but didn't think it was actually a good idea since I'm 30-something and have chicken bones. But my sister died of ovarian cancer in her 40s. so important to remember we don't NEED these parts. So glad it went so well for you @nursenurse ...it all makes me anxious. But we do have choices.

Alright., I'm over-posting, especially in light of how little I have to offer. But I wish you loads of luck @KP the nut ....thank you for brining it up. I'm so scared to even talk about it, then find out loads of women have these problems. Hopefully you come through like a breeze and have options you can feel okay with. And keep us posted!

 

[nursenurse]

The size of the fibroid sounds like it is too big for hormonal therapy. The fact you have 9 centimeter opening to your cervix is disconcerting, as at 10 centimeters your baby comes out. Hopefully not your baby fibroid.

You might have some endometriosis in there too, most women have some by the time they reach "our" age.


What I felt , and what I hope you feel, once it is done, is Why didn't I do this sooner. I know you are nervous, and in spite of all my knowledge, I am a big chicken sh*t when it comes to procedures. You should be asleep during it,wake up with pain that will be managed by the nurse or you, if you qualify for the happy button. Whichever procedure you do, I cannot emphasize the importance of getting out of bed and walking. They might not have you do much on the day of, but if they say you to sit up, just do it. Everyday gets better. That I can tell you. Then instead of burning bras you can burn your pads. Or donate the to a cause - there are countries in Africa where girls do nut go to school because of their periods. I left tampons and pads there at a girls school in Sierra Leone.and Advil.Just an aside when you no longer need super soakers.

 

[KP the nut]

soaked through every pad and tampon known to man, had myself padded from my chin to the back of my neck.

I think I should be honorary salaried CEO of Tampax and Always. You know those commercials that said "Have a Happy Period? I was ready to heave a rock at the TV.

I did the happy dance, to my daughter's embarrassment, singing "No more pads! No more pads!" hands in the air, hips with a little sway. As I was waiting for my script to be filled, another customer came up behind me and said, "I am so jealous".

Thank you so much for your reply. I am still smiling at the above, yes I know exactly that feeling. Your reply has helped a lot.

The surgeon is going to do a hysteroscopy to remove the fibroids. I will know size etc on Friday after my ultrasound. He did explain that if I bleed he will do a full hysterectomy.

I am in quite a bit of pain but as I said to work colleagues earlier it is so annoying because apart from feeling tired I feel fine mentally. Hubby has just phoned and is on his way home, can't wait.

 

[Lucycat]

@KP the nut I am curious about your instruction to have a full bladder. That sounds like they are doing the ultrasound via the abdomen - ie externally like in pregnancy, rather than an internal ultrasound to look at the specific pelvic organs. Maybe they cannot use that method for fear of actually harming the fibroid itself if it is so close to the cervix.

I have had a lot of gynaecological surgery over the years. It was to correct a congenital abnormality. Essentially the final operation was when they took my uterus out, 'cored it' ( like a sweet pepper!) and then put it back. Since it never was of use to me I have, many times, wished that they did not put it back. I had an internal 'pack' to stop the bleeding, post-op which was uncomfortable, and a urinary catheter which they inserted when I was under the anaesthetic.

My periods have always been irregular, but about 3 years ago I started cerezette, which has suited me well. I get ocassional bleeds but not even enough to need a pad. It is great. Before that I would have heavy periods, with clots that lasted several weeks at a time and have used the Noresthisterone many times. I was lucky it was very effective for me.

I suspect you will feel a lot better once the fibroid is gone. I suspect they will proceed to hysterectomy in the same procedure if that is what is required - rather than rescheduling. I am sure they will discuss all this with you and you will likely be asked to consent for either/or.

Have they given you an indication as to length of stay? My major op was years ago, but I had to stay in 7 nights post-op and was many miles from home. I had few visitors and we certainly did not have the internet then! I detest being bedridden so I took loose clothes to change into every day, even if I was just laying on top of the bed. I was the only person in the ward who bothered to get dressed, but I was really uncomfortable being in my night clothes in company. I was in back in the days when the 'Gameboy' was popular and I had taken one with me. The doctors would pull the curtains round my bed so they could play it too!!

 

[nursenurse]

These days it seems to be slam bam, thank you ma'am with hospitalizations. I had the total abdominal hysterectomy, surgery was around 11 AM Monday, and I was home by 6PM Wednesday evening. I wanted to leave earlier, but then we nurses are usually pretty impatient.

 

[StarChild]

Dearest @KP the nut, I'm so sorry that you have to experience so much pain and distress. I'd like very much to write you my (good) experiences, from 19 years ago (I was 29 then), but I'm fighting another suppurative infection of my sinuses, so I have difficulties to concentrate on writing. - But I did note the 3 date you mentioned in your first post. ...And if you're fine with it, I'll light soothing and healing candles for you, every day. (I already lit one for you) So that you know, I'm with you with my thoughts and my heart will accompany you during this time. :tup::hug: (But please let me also know, if you're not comfortable with my offer, because it's meant for you and not about me.)

Sending gentle hugs your way, dear KP. :hug::happy::hug::hug::happy::hug: You're not alone, lady, we're there for you! :)

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I went through the heavy bleeding and clots the size of baseballs and it lasted for a month. So after a year of trying different things I had a full hysterectomy and they took my cervix as well. It was the bikini surgery so scarring is minimal. Recovery meant one night in the hospital and my husband stayed with me. I was so sick and tired of being sick and tired.

I did not go on hormone therapy because I woman I once knew died from the effects of the hormones.

I did not go on hormone therapy afterwards either.

I did not have to go through menopause, something I was really grateful for. I had a good doctor and I felt one hundred percent better after the surgery.

I had such debilitating cramps while I was having the non stop periods. Backaches etc.

You will come through this fine and you will feel so much better.

I will light incense for you and will be sending you healing energy.

I am so glad I had the operation. It changed my life for the better. No more leaking through my clothes. One time we were going to the beach and I leaked through my clothes and my husband had to go into a store and buy me new clothes to wear. I used to have emergency tampons in both of the cars.

Wishing you a smooth procedure and a really quick recovery. Everything is going to be ok. Hugs.

 

[KP the nut]

I'll light soothing and healing candles for you

I will light incense for you and will be sending you healing energy.

Thank you to you both. I love burning candles, it helps me to relax. Hugs always appreciated as well.

No more leaking through my clothes.

Can't wait. I keep spare clothes in the car and pants (knickers) in my bag.

Tomorrow is ultrasound day. I think I am prepared. I tested some drops of neroli oil today and it helped to relax me. Tomorrow I'll take some on a hankie and will carry my essential oil inhalers that I made up.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I will be thinking of you KP. I hope the procedure is not too invasive nor triggering for you. Hugs.

 

[KP the nut]

Okay, good news and not so good.

Good news. I have had my ultrasounds and they were fine. Absolutely no pain or discomfort.

Bad news. My operation has been put back 2 weeks until 3 Sept. So annoying, not just the extra 2 weeks of symptoms but the hassle. Hubby runs training courses and works away a lot. He had rearranged with companies so that he was at home, now he has to rearrange them again. I had also arranged cover for work and now I have it to do again.

Basically, the consultant who saw me, put me onto another surgeons list, that surgeon won't do my procedure as it is not one he usually does, so I am now back to the first consultant.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I understand how you feel, been there, done that. I am so sorry for the unneeded hassles and inconvenience. Still burning incense and thinking of you and your husband as you have this unfortunate delay in waiting. I hope you manage the symptoms of being in suspense and hope you plan on doing a lot of self care. Hugs.

 

[CraftyCath]

Hey @KP the nut Let me know that new date, if it is after my Medieval Market and Graham has to go away I might be able to come over and be your private nurse for a few days so you can rest post op.

Meanwhile I'm right here if you want to chat. I need to see what days hubby is off and we can pop over and visit IF you are up to it. We could do take away so no one has to cook. I'll be in touch but here is an extra special hug to keep you going until I can give you a real one...:hug: