Why Can't I Cope After 2 Month Relationship Ended?

[numb87]

So I had last week tear free week last week and I have found myself having another massive cry right now it's nearly been a month now felt like I was getting better :( this is awful I've never felt this sad

 

[Yunie]

So I had last week tear free week last week and I have found myself having another massive cry right now...

What I have learned from dealing with my year relationship that ended, is that you HAVE to give yourself time. Don't beat yourself up because it takes you months to feel better. If you hide these emotions it will manifest itself later. I have good days and bad days still. Emotions are not logical, so I had to stop pretending like I shouldn't feel this way. This break up hurt worse than when my 4 year marriage ended, and that's okay because (like I said) emotions cannot be logical. Even if I ever realize he is not good for me, we still don't always want what is best for us. I agree with the comment that love is an addiction. I read an article about it...and just like an addiction it takes a while to heal. And no matter what the reason for the break up, if you're like me, you can't help but feel like a failure.