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Been Found By A Rescue Dog

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He might be 'favouring' his paws now that you mention his nails.. - he's sensitive to his paws being touched I notice

How often do they generally need to be done or does it vary by breed and activity? I suspect when he's healthy and feeling more himself and we are out hiking etc they will wear naturally??

Dear @City Slicker , sometimes they will walk tentatively on floors, or stop-and-run, or avoid, because their nails hurt or they've slipped & fallen. (With arthritis too.) And poor baby with the frostbite! :( Like ourselves where they get frostbite it will hurt more in the cold. :( Eventually for walks you can even use cotton balls in the ears (for protection from the cold). They usually hate 'booties' but they can help too, but more so protection from road salt.

Nails are usually done about once/ month, most dogs hate it but that's because they don't get done.. But they do recommend to touch their feet a lot. It won't hurt them to do their nails. Most people try to take off too much at once. The key is if you look at the nail, take off only the part that starts to curve or curl over (just the tip.) Through the nail their is a vein, if you go too much it will bleed. The problem is when they're not done often the vein goes closer to the tip. But regular trims encourage the vein to push back. The actual nail trim doesn't hurt them as long as there's no infection (just like cutting our nails). A split nail I'd watch though.

I thought they could wear down too, but apparently it takes 10 miles/ day walking on concrete to do that! :eek: (If anything, it's easier on their feet to walk on grass when it's too hot in the summer.)

It's easy to tell if they need it: on floors you will hear a click. (Silent/'thump' without). (The 'duclaw'- sp?-pronounced 'dew-claw' is the one on the side of the leg, some say they need to be removed but I have never. Sometimes they'll get caught on something and just come off, but that's ok & they don't grow back).

PS, what is good for large breeds are elevated food/ water bowl(s) (for digestion/ arthritis). And padding/ comfort like a dog bed (especially when he's thin/ large bones.)

! You are such a kind person to take in a vulnerable dog like that. It does definitely say something about you as a person, that a dog who has known so much abuse chose you. In spite of all he's been through, he feels safe with you.

Yes. ++ :) :inlove:

It's still kind of overwhelming to see how much he is trusting me. I said to him the other day, 'I am not going to blow this...we are in this together and you will not be alone and unloved ever again...'

You're a sweetie & so is he. :) :hug: :hug:
 
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Thanks @Anrish and @Junebug. The information is very helpful. I am hoping to get hiking with Hank probably next week after he's seen the vet for follow up and we'll see how much weight he's gained. He had trouble getting up when he first came and I wasn't sure what issues we were seeing and neither was the vet. But now he is jumping up when I call his name with very little issues in getting up or standing. I am thinking he was just exhausted, broken and trying to heal.

@Junebug, I don't hear a click yet so I am thinking his nails are still ok. Ok I understand now about the nail vs the nail bed - a few of his nails are really, really short and broken - this morning he let me hold one of his paws before he gently tried to take it back. He was very sweet but I could tell he was nervous.

I held his each front paw for about 5 seconds each and then figured I would go for his back feet too. Only with cheese in my hand, I touched his back foot and didn't hold it. Then I touched the other for a few seconds. He was so fixed on the cheese which was really good because when he first came, he was extremely introverted and withdrawn and with good reason.

But now when I open the fridge, he picks up his ears and looks at me!! He knows this is where the cheese hunters keep the treats.

You're a sweetie & so is he.
now I am completely blushing...
 
Wow can I adopt you? LOL. You have such a variety of gifts with Hank and I think this is such a positive uplifting bond that is forming that will be joyful for years. You are so amazing with Hank.
 
Just catching up on this thread....makes me have a little weep every time I read it!

He looks beautiful in the photo and hearing about how the pair of you are developing a close, trusting bond is so, so moving. Please continue to keep us updated!
 
I am so deeply touched and gratified by this adventure of you and Hank and think, that kind of treatment would have gone such a long way for me. To see Hank coming back to life and bonding to you is a miracle which I so appreciate all of the hearts that have been touched by you both.
 
Thanks @barefoot - I would love to keep updating. I am like a proud parent now!! I have the photograph on my phone too now.

Thank you so much @KwanYingirl - I can feel the huge support and warmth from you all as Hank is making his way back to us. The support here has meant more to me than I have words.

We are passing laws here in Canada making them stronger but there is still such a long way to go. I know that the people that had Hank were parents of another son who was previously convicted of animal cruelty and was banned from having any animals for a specific period. I don't know if Hank was with him at some point but I can hardly even think about what was done to him. Hank was taken as part of a large animal seizure from these people.

Some of his teeth are broken and the vet just shook his head in sadness when I asked how his teeth got broken. I was quite ignorant and thought initially maybe he got a virus or something causing his teeth to break - ... the vet looked at me with such sympathy ... he was telling me that Hank's teeth had been knocked out or damaged by some type of awful human interaction.

@gizmo, my heart aches when I think of the cruelty you have experienced. I wish I could have been a 'big me' back then and gotten you out of there - I would have 'adopted' you in a heartbeat. I will gladly share Hank stories with you and anytime you need to hear about more kindness gentleness I will send you stories.

I think Hank represents us - open and trusting, hurt, terrified, and yet still willing to reach out 'one more time'. And still hoping after everything that there is something in us that is still loveable and worthwhile.

An awesome thing has happened for me and that's that I see myself through Hank's eyes: I can 'feel' my own value now after all this time simply because Hank can see it. And if he can see it, I can see what he sees. If that makes sense. I know you know what I mean. It moved from being an intellectual understanding to something that is so felt inside now - and something I never thought possible.

Hank now looks at me and when I meet his eyes, I smile all the time at him - when I smile at him, he will make these 'squeezy eyes' back at me - he will look at me but he almost blinks and makes his eyes soft and gentle.

This morning I was getting ready for work and we have a routine where I take him out before breakfast and I run around the yard encouraging him to move around a bit. The last couple mornings he has been a lot more alert and watchful but he hasn't engaged too much except to walk around the yard.

This morning as I ran and jumped in the air and acted like a crazy woman, Hank came closer and started to gently wag his bum. I moved my upper body and shook my shoulders at him and made some crazy goofy noise. He wagged his bum so fast and then in an instant he flew up in the air and down onto the ground in a magnificent play bow!!!!

I gave him such praise and he let me cuddle him all over. His openness and vulnerability touched me so deeply again. And then I broke into tears. Geeze Louise! But as I sobbed I continued talking to him about how proud I was of him. He didn't seem to be upset by my tears - and then it was way too cold to stay outside crying in the snow so we both went inside.

I am out of the house most of the afternoon today and my neighbour is coming over to check on him. He fell asleep right after his breakfast and was snoozing soundly when I left.

Thank you again so much for all your support. I can't tell you all how much I appreciate all your thoughts and comments.
 
I think Hank represents us - open and trusting, hurt, terrified, and yet still willing to reach out 'one more time'. And still hoping after everything that there is something in us that is still loveable and worthwhile.

This is not a given but really huge. :tup: :)

Hank now looks at me and when I meet his eyes, I smile all the time at him - when I smile at him, he will make these 'squeezy eyes' back at me - he will look at me but he almost blinks and makes his eyes soft and gentle.

This is called soul-gazing. :) :inlove: :hug:

Happy times for you both. :hug: :hug:
 
This is called soul-gazing
I love that - yes, I can totally see why it's called that!

@gizmo, I think this dear one coming has highlighted this to me in a way I hadn't really put together before.

It's like in the Wizzard of OZ when they tell Dorothy she's been home the entire time. I think I had the ability to take care of my needs all along but I never really 'knew' at a fundamental, mature, feeling level that there could be huge growth with awesome rewards and that a lot of 'ghosts in the machine' that I have been dragging around on my back could finally be laid to rest.

Then in walked this rescue dog ...
 
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