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How Do You Deal With Difficult People

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Honestly, not much can be done about the weed if the landlord doesn't care. Many people would probably need to complain about it in a way that it becomes a financial risk to her. He's clearly not smoking out the window. I would ask him to and say it bothers your asthma or something. Cops won't do anything
 
@Heather I would only say that the cops would not do anything if the person has a medical marjiuana card and if it was already approved by the land lady.

This happened when I questioned a guy who smoked up stairs to the left side of me. I still had my kids at the time. I asked the manager and he confirmed.

Between me and you, I hope it ain't so and he gets arrested!! Only cause I can't stand the smell.

@Ed Norton I would only agree if it was a very crappy neighborhood. Having to to with the cops not doing anything.
 
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Well I don't know for certain. They tend to be after dealers though. It would be better if he would open the window. I'm lucky that I can smoke in my room but I open a window.
 
@Heather Between me and you, I hope it ain't so and he gets arrested!! Only cause I can't stand the smell.

I really hope that that was a tongue in cheek comment.

As regards breaking of laws, blighty and the united state are alike in having around thirty feet of bookshelf worth of legislated laws, and around another seventy feet plus of bureaucrat made regulations, which have the standing of laws.

No human can ever reasonably read through that lot, let alone understand and remember it all. I'll give the small example that a few years back, the professional body of British judges issued a report, complaining that they now have considerable difficulty finding jurors who are capable of following even a moderately complex case. They cited the B liar and Clown government's turning of business practices into fourteen thousand new criminal offences.

Fourteen thousand new criminal offences, in business alone!

How many fellonies has each of us committed today?

The average is in the region of three to five, daily.

The presence of a bad law does not justify siccing thugs ( shiny badged thugs or otherwise) on our fellows.

Sure, it happens. That ability, that opportunity, appeals to, and brings out the very worst possible version of us.

The sort of person who snitches because something about another person appeals to the most intolerant, jealous, small minded and spiteful parts of themselves.

I'll restate, that someone who is exercising those small minded parts, is being a difficult unpleasant person.

There are plenty of people in history, who have chosen to risk punishment for doing what was just, rather than what unjust laws said. I'll cite a good swathe of the Quakers as an example. People who expected to frequently see the inside of prisons and worse*, rather than be unjust to their fellows.

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In Massachusetts alone, the worse included being stripped naked tied to a cart and whipped through town. Ears cut off, branded, and ultimately, execution.

Even Quakers who I've known, went to prison rather than in any way support violence. I see them as people who sought to be the best possible versions of themselves, rather than seeking pretexts such as because piece of paper with politicians writing on it, to excuse being the worst version.
 
@Marie E. He DOESN'T have a medical marijuana card...He is just a complete and total pot-head. The hallway stunk AGAIN this morning. I called the cops when I smelt it and asked for them to come by.

In the meantime they arrived back home and sprayed the hallway with air-freshner to cover up the smell. So, now I have no proof. So, I cancelled the call. Frustrating.
 
Hmm decided to change my post and say I hope you do what is best for you and Your daughter, sorry it is an unpleasant smell!
 
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@Anarchy Perhaps it is called snitching but I never really called the cops on a person smoking weed. I just don't like the smell, unsure of the effects do to ruminations in society. Just was unpleasant for my kids and I. I am supporting my friend here @Heather as her kid goes through a rough time. I can understand that my comment sounded rude.
 
@Anarchy Do you have kids? And if the answer is no..... then come post when you have one! I'm not inflicting anything on this guy.... He is doing it to HIMSELF.

There are other ways to deal with problems than by using illegal substances!

Seriously. I am done.
 
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I don't need a kid to spot unjust treatment of others.

I don't need a child to spot someone treating others unjustly on the basis of their feelings

I'm not going to be silenced on the basis of some spurious "you can't criticise me unless" qualification
 
sorry it is an unpleasant smell!

It's more than just an unpleasant smell. It's illegal. It's a drug. and who knows who he's getting it from? What kind of unsavory people is he dealing with and bringing in close proximity to me and my kid.

I don't want her around it. We have been through enough and this is the last kind of sh*t that I need to be dealing with.

plus, he just moved in his girlfriend and their 3 y/o daughter....what is that doing to her? Very irresponsible parenting if you ask me.
 
I get an impression that this issue, in comparison to bigger life issues, is really minor and there are a few easy ways to possibly remedy this. I have a kid. Before I stopped smoking for professional reasons when he saw me smoke I told him about it...the good and bad. He never smoked but once with me actually. He's doing very well.

There's some finite nonequivalence between drugs.. Weed =/= coke, K2, crack, meth, heroin, krokodil and the dealers are almost never major criminals and gangstas. All of this is my experience. Sometimes putting things in balance and perspective is quite helpful for risk assessment.

Good luck
 
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