A Word That " Defines" You

[Ron]

Recovering

Yes, you are! And I want to help you if you let me.

Peaceful lost in space - now figure that one out ... it's the best I can do to describe me now.

That's sounds fine to me Froggie!

it is amazing how fast a good mood can disappear ... defeated.

Well, grab the next good mood that's coming down the tracks, jump on and hold on! Remember, what your thinking about and what you are doing both affect mood. Push yourself, and talk positively to yourself in your brain always.

At peace

Great to hear, you deserve every ounce of peace!

Fighter

That I like !

Today I was 'brave' according to my bf. I feel more like 'freak', but I'll try to hang onto 'brave.'

You are what you believe period.

Drugged

Wine? LOL, just kidding KP.:D

Hardworking

You kick a%$ ! Awesome Hope!

In my bad days 'failure.'
In my good days 'caring, funny, likable'

You are not a failure, you are a success. You are what you believe yourself to be period. We become what we think about.

Today.... lonely.
My grandmother used to tell me that you can be lonely in a room full of people. I didn't understand it as a child, but I do now.......

I agree totally!

In my bad days 'failure.'
In my good days 'caring, funny, likable'

Old!!!:oops::sleep:;)

You are gorgeous!;)

Determined!

Yeah !!! I like that!

Tries very hard

Never give up! Put the "pedal to the metal" and keep it there!!

Survivor

You are.

ball of energy

And don't burn out.

hungry tired and sore ... but still determined. :)

Awesome. Determined. Keep it up and don't stop !!

fiesty but damaged

Look at "the damage" and talk about it to a trusted friend or loved one. Then is loses power and shrinks away to the past.

grieving

And so you should, it's being human (to cry).

Suffering

How?

Weak.

How? Please elaborate. I challenge that. I don't believe that. You are steel.

Sad. Since starting the separation with my husband some people that said they were friends just disappeared. I wish I could understand why. I just need to accept it I guess. I need to wish them the best and move on with my life such as it is.

Yes, a new life,(a better life) is waiting for you. Are you willing?

Ron- what does this mean?:

" Look at "the damage" and talk about it to a trusted friend or loved one. Then is loses power and shrinks away to the past. "
(Sorry if I should understand it :()

I think we are all damaged goods on here to one degree or another. I was saying looking at our own damage and talking about it is "ok" and that we need valadation by a loved one or friend and in time it loses power over ou lives.

 

[Ron]

Courageous.

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

Determined!

 

[Tinyflame]

So kind to everyone else- (((((((Ron)))))))

 

[Tinyflame]

Ron- what does this mean?:

" Look at "the damage" and talk about it to a trusted friend or loved one. Then is loses power and shrinks away to the past. "
(Sorry if I should understand it :()

 

[jimmy-joe]

See that it's not a problem anymore and have it reinforced by someone you can trust takes the shame out of it and makes the pain seem long ago instead of 3 seconds ago

is my bell ringing * :D

 

[jimmy-joe]

Disarrayed

 

[Dani]

That I like !

Thanx!

 

[Tinyflame]

-Thx Ron and J-j
xox

 

[Jacquie]

I'm not 'me' any more and I dont really want to define 'what' I am right now. It's not 'me'. The person I have become is dumb as dog sh*t and incapable and needy and jumpy. And *I* am not any of those things.

 

[jimmy-joe]

Jacquie, the person you have become is inside your body. Along with the person you were. Most likely it's someone who suffered some serious shit. Give her a break :p she's scared, she needs to know she is safe. And probably for someone to know the pain you carry, but I don't know your whole story and whatnot :P

 

[Jacquie]

No seriously jimmiy-joe. Not me. I dont eat meat. Now I only want meat and carbs and I NEVER eat junk food and want it. I always drive and have done for decades, alert and even in other countries. Now I have trouble remembering to turn the wheel on the car to go around the corner on my own road. I cant concentrate and cant 'think'. Nope. This is not 'me'. I am literate and see details, now I have trouble seeing an elephant in front of me. Physical changes, not just scared. I can't 'do' the things I did and dont 'like' the things I loved. Nope. not me.

Sorry that sounded harsh. Not directed at you. Just so confusing and frustrating. Thank you for your kind words though.

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