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Sophia90
For the past two nights, my boyfriend kept me up all night so we can "argue". But when we argue, it is 90% of him talking and me listening while he complains about all of my wrongdoings. He tells me that I'm fat and obese, even though I'm considered skinny, just not 90 lbs. That I'm retarded even though I graduated with cum laude with a BA from a top university. He tells me that I am the cause of his early aging even though I haven't done anything. And he goes on all night while I sit there just listening. If I talk, it's only to tell him calmly that he needs to relax, which angers him more. I know he wants to get a response from me. And then he tells me to apologize for arguing with him. He says that it's my fault because if I change myself then he would no longer have a reason to argue with me. However, I know that even if I change myself, he would still find a reason to argue, either by saying I'm not skinny enough or I'm stupid. But, I really don't understand how if I'm not engaging in the discussion, it can even be considered an argument. Also, I don't understand how this is all my fault if he chooses to talk down on me.
