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Abusive father and mother

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My mother has a long history of lying to psychiatrist by telling them that I have bipolar disorder and schizoaffective disorder. I don't have either of those two diagnosis. I have autism and CPTSD. My parents did not want me because they didn't want a child on the spectrum. My mother would manufacturer diagnoses because she didn't have any Patience to deal with a child with autism. She would lie to my doctors and say he's manic, he's psychotic he needs medicine. When the doctor wouldn't do what she wanted she would use her sister who was a lawyer and make legal threats to force the doctor to do what she wanted. She would bully me to get me upset and abuse my autism to make me look crazy. My therapist thinks she has narcissistic personality disorder and munchiusin like. This woman was a teacher and she had the nerve to volunteer in demestic violence work. She is the demestic abuser. She cares about her self image so much and can only remember herself as being great. Her memory is completely distorted. She is a dangerous person. When baby's are born they should do a complete psychological evaluation for personality disorders and to see if the parent is fit to raise a child.

My father likes to be very controlling and ask questions that are none of his business and keep asking until he gets what he wants. My father has a lot of ablism and he assaulted me when I was 21 after emotional abusing me. Him and my step mother would constantly say that im handicapped, I'm not capable of college, im mentally dimished. In March of 2024 the police called my dad and told him to stop abusing me. The police know who my parents really are today , but unfortunately they were unaware when I was a child. My dad does not stop being abusive until he gets what he wants. My dad constantly lies and says I imagine him abusing me. He left psychiatry in 2020 for depression and paranoia. He is your classic demestic abuser . My parents belong in prison. What they did to a innocent child with a serious development mental disability was beyond inhumane.
 
Welcome to the forum, @Jeffreytoronto79 !

That sounds like a hell of a childhood. Are you now living independently from your parents? Do you have a T that you trust?

Hopefully this place is an opportunity for having a healing community in your life.
 
hello jeffrey. welcome to the forum. sorry for what brings you here, but glad you are here.

i'll second @Sideways wonder about whether you are still living with your parents and whether you have found a therapist. just wondering.

i mostly wanted to welcome you aboard. i hope you find stabilizing companionship here.
 
Wow - so much of your experience is so similar to mine. My parents are the same and I have always felt the same way, that more needs to be done to help children with abusive parents. Your life is a constant hell and to make it worse, people don’t believe a parent could be that way. Especially when they are so nice to everyone else! People are so easily fooled. I’m so sorry this has been your experience. I cut my parents off at 38 after learning what a narcissist was. Life has been incredibly hard on my own and it feels like exchanging one bad situation for another but at least I don’t have to be in their presence anymore and deal with the nausea and internal turmoil that goes with that. Sending love your way!
 
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