Relationship Anger

[Tracee]

I’m not a happy camper at all right now. In my fantasy life, I want to choke this prick out in a violent fashion. I’m not much for violence, so that’s weird. It’s more like I want to pour honey on him and then set a vat of fire ants loose on his ass. It would be extremely emotionally satisfying.

 

[Sighs]

Does he have PTSD? Are you supporting him? What did he do to make you so mad?

 

[Tracee]

I tire. I do. I get really sick of people’s bullshit. I have spent thousands of dollars on the whole travel thing, I have bitten my goddamn tongue, I have massaged the ego, I have done everything I know how to do. And still, here I sit with my ass handed to me. I wish for him to have honey-coated balls in an acre of f*cking fire ants. Not nice, yet true.

He does
I WAS
Well, let’s see...came in and blew up my life unexpectedly, and then just one day told me to f*ck off with no real explanation. I’ve heard that’s common with PTSD.

What the hell with the lack of manners and just general disinterest. Why would someone just look someone up that they haven’t seen in 30 years, whip out that sweet good mannered behavior, and then once they have you sucked in ....oh, it sucks to be you! Sorry if I acted like I gave an actual flying f*ck as to whether you are a real hunan being with feelings and all of that shit. Quite unfortunate you got your feelings hurt. Thanks for all the free plane tickets and for not dick-punching me while you had the chance.

I am of the opinion that this world is packed full of psychopaths, and for every psychopath, at least ten of us are posting on this forum.

 

[Sighs]

Sigh! Yep. Its not that unusual. I don't know if its psychopathy - more likely the push/pull of PTSD. He wants to be close, he wants a relationship with you, so he pursues you (and how!) but once you become close, that frightens the hell out of him and he bails.

Vent away. There are many of us who have been where you are now. Some of us more than once.

Hugs if you accept them.

 

[Angrboda]

I read your posts in the rant thread. This guy sounds like a misogynistic asshole. If you're keen on ant-mediated vengeance, I think anaphylaxis from fire ant stings might be too quick and gentle. In my opinion, the best thing to do is drag him into the African bush and stake his ass to the ground in front of an oncoming driver ant raid front. It'll take 'em a few days, but so long as he can't run they'll strip him all the way to the bone. No honey necessary. They enjoy flesh. :)