General Attachments

[Fleabug]

No really sure what I am going for here, but have been reading and have seen the avoidant and anxious attachment combo come up a few times. Why do those two attachments seem to pair up? How would/could those work better together? Basically any info on avoidant/anxious would be great since it seems that a lot of sufferers are avoidant and supporters are anxious.

 

[EveHarrington]

I’ve read a lot about this pairing. It’s apparently a yo-yo reaction type relationship where each feeds off the negative behavior of the other. I think it could work if BOTH partners work on changing.

 

[Never_falter2]

Could you explain a bit more about this types?