Attracted To Homosexual Men

[jmni]

Indeed, also I like how you can talk to gay men and they are generally interested, they listen, they make conversation. You know they are NOT going to try it on.

Most heterosexual men regard women as inferior. They do not listen to them and only want one thing from them. This in itself is not attractive and is off putting.

Well the gay men who I was referring to I have sexually active with. But they have all of these negative mysoginistic-pig traits. I feel that I may of been attracted to what I was suspected to a good thing but turned out not to be. Actually I've known many gay men with very poor attitudes towards women.

Clearly it's not a good idea to overgeneralize and make assumptions based on stereotypes in my experience anyway.

 

[Anna]

Stenni, you are very lucky to have found a nice caring man.

I guess I just have had a lot of bad experiences with heterosexual men. I get on much better with gay men.

I have also been sexually active with gay men, yes they can be mean sometimes, especially when it comes to the female body. At the end of the day they prefer a male body which is hard rather than the soft contours of a female body.

I myself feel like I am drifting away from men completly. I am beginning to prefer women. Just as I think maybe this time it will be different the misogynistic pig rears it's ugly head again. In general maybe I am just becoming a misanthropist.

Too many bad experiences. Makes you harder, toughens you up. Except the emotional numbing has lasted over a year now. One of my friends said, after awhile you fail to feel anything anymore as you brain becomes harder in order to protect itself.