Hi,
So like you I havent seen a doctor in a very long time when they started to ask when I am getting women procedures... I have recently been diagnosed with ptsd and seeking therapy to find ways to cope with this. One thing, talk with a therapist first. It helps a lot and also doctors should not ask any questions about sexual orientation. And like someone earlier mentioned, you can always say no or walk out... I also recommended meeting different doctors and pay attention how you feel etc. I recently met my primary doctor and he was very understanding about my story. He said to come in when I am ready with no pressure, I truly felt understood and hope its very soon!
