Can I Get Some Input?

[MAS444]

Okay, so she called me back this morning and said she's been under the weather and my email got lost. Going to see her tomorrow for some bach flower remedies.

 

[Zemi]

That's great it was just a case of lost email and her being sick (not so great with her being sick of course). Hope it went well seeing her :)

 

[Heather]

I love the horse! !

I love your DOG:) (even if I'm a cat person).

 

[Heather]

So if she doesn't respond to that, then she hates me.

When I read this last week I smiled to myself because I think this EXACT same thing.

 

[Kintsugi]

So if she doesn't respond to that, then she hates me.

I'm glad it went well.

I can just say that the thinking illustrated above is what just cost me one of my closest friendships ever. One of my best friends, someone I used to call a sister, decided that me not answering my phone and flaking out on plans meant that I didn't want our friendship, when in fact I have just been severely depressed and phones/email/going out gives me extreme anxiety, so I avoid these things. She thought that my actions were about her, but they were really about me, and she was not the only one receiving that kind of neglect.

I just mean to say, stay positive and remember that if you don't remember something in particular happening that would explain a lack of communication/interest, it's probably not about you!