Cannot Believe I Am Even Considering This!!! Need Relationship Advice!!!

[ANCHOR]

Way to go Pandora!

Realizing that you can start creating more positive thought patterns is a HUGE step. :clap::clap::clap:

And you are so right, there will be good days and bad days. I embarrassingly had a bad day this week and I regret much of what I thought and felt that day. :rolleyes:

There are many creative ways to express new positive thoughts as reminders. I have heard some people like to craft a jar or box and write affirmations on strips of paper to store in them. They read them daily or just when they need an uplift. I like to write them on my mirror in permanent marker so I can take a good look at myself at the same time.

Affirmations can be written on ornaments or jewelry, too. You can hang them on your rear view mirror for when you are out in the world experimenting with your boundaries. Take Care Pandora! :Hug_emoticon:

 

[pandora]

ANCHOR...I have a positive affirmations book. I copied a whole bunch of them into a post months ago..if you would like to read it.

 

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I just want to add that in my experience, most men do not talk about their emotions or intentions. Why? Who knows.
This is hard, and you have to be strong. Maybe right your questions or concerns on a paper first and then ask him directly. He can't slide out of a direct question. Sometimes the most intimate things are just holding hands and going for a walk.