It really is no great exciting story Wendy, just one time after I had day surgery (I had a small incision in my abdomen), I got up the next morning craving pancakes, and no one was up yet so I started making some, and Jim came in the kitchen and was pissed at me about it because he thought I should be resting. Anyways ever since then, whenever we have pancakes he talks about me getting up after surgery to make pancakes. Like, "Christ remember when you had to make bloody pancakes the day after surgery? Should have still been in bed not making f*ing pancakes. I told you to keep your arse in bed. Are pancakes worth popping a stitch over? Are they worth getting a blood clot? Ridiculous!" And so on ... and if you try to say it's in the past he just bitches more lol...
Seriously though, thanks to all who have replied, I guess most of you think I should rest and let my family help me, maybe that is so, I will try to do that for now I guess.