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My sister for some reason is freaking out now and says I HAVE to keep the House at all costs, even if it means taking out a mortgage on it... The lack of support is fine in the face of losing a childhood home and also our suddenly dead mom's house, but the pressure is over the line.

She's always had anxiety issues and hasn't been getting therapy for it. I'm at a point where I've already re-homed animals and such, and don't want to deal with the house anymore, nor live with my brother. Like, ship's sailed...

Shocked she called me to say I have to do something because she is freaked out. I get that she's freaked out, especially because she also can't take in our brother and uh. etc.

I'm in a doctor office rn so not going into detail but. Grrr
 
I told her I've exhausted every option I had available that I could afford. My brother didn't pay any rent and she and I are both in debt for it. how would I afford a mortgage, and why would I make my first home this piece of shit house at this point...?

Maybe will ask the bank but seriously, what the heck
 
Even just researching taking on a mortgage is going to be stressful - especially if you are doing it for someone else's benefit.

You have already arranged all of the things to get you into the hosptial and to finally get care for you. You need that time to rest and recover from all you've been thru, with people who can help you. Really help you.

If your sister wants the house she can take out a mortgage and let you rent from her - after! you get the help you need. This hospital journey has been a long process, please don't let someone who shows up at the last minute to make demands derail you
 
I check online calculators and they suggest I can afford $4,000 of house lmao

Thanks, I agree. It's really unfortunate that all of this has happened and I really hope my brother finds something. Don't know why she wants to save him and not me, but not even worried about that part tbh. Maybe because he's my mom's baby (youngest)

Idk. I've already been mad she was freaking out about how the house loss will affect her grief and not at all about how I've had to completely give up everything.

I'm trying so hard to just be thankful she showed any concern because she didn't have to. Aka I'm aware most people can't mentally handle all of this and I do not want to judge the desperate reactions of people, but goodness I think if I can figure this out when it's this dire and this bad 🫠

Hope that makes sense
 
My entire family is pulling me in every direction. One said move next week, one said I have until spring (how???) etc

Dad called my mom's younger sister and now I'm hearing about that. dad is texting like crazy. Trying to say he will pay for my rent and now telling other family memebrs he will so maybe he will, idk. I am so overwhelmed and just want this to be over already. Even the realtor is texting me right now saying he wants me to think of my grandpa, as if that wasn't one of the exact reasons why I'm trying to get out quickly. Really worrying what my family is saying about me behind my back because I'm starting to think they're villainizing me

Doenst matter I guess. I need out and I really am trying. So over this
 
Maybe dad's side thinks me grieving my animals is me being mad at them? So they're blaming me?

Idk. My sister sure is angry I won't try to do a literally impossible mortgage on the house. She started insisted im not even trying. Now won't talk to me. So that's great
 

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