Communication Problem

[Tanishq]

I contacted some healer and I asked them some question first. They told me they will do reading regarding question, they're willing to help me and will let me know the next day. Three days happened they didn't respond me. I was also connected with them in their FB group. They put some thread and I found it helpful. I sincerely thanked them. Other members did thank them. I just saw this healer liked other people's thank you, not just mine. So I felt I don't deserve their help. I immediately unfriend this person and also left their group. I messaged them I have decided to leave group. It's fine by me.

Immediately I received a message in inbox and this person was saying they weren't guided to do reading for me. They told me I need to look into my problem by myself. It wasn't the answer I wanted to know and wasn't in connection with what I wanted to know. Then why they didn't tell me it three days ago. I felt ignored and rejected when they didn't respond me. Now when I left their group and friendship, all of sudden they respond me. I feel like it was their intention to let me go, force me to leave group.

Bitter taste in mouth :(

I am still thinking why they did it to me?

 

[LC23]

They sound like a shyster maybe. Find another.

 

[Shellbell]

It sounds to me like you are better off away from them Jaret.

I understand it hurts, but try not to feel rejected, they were not the people you need in your life to help you.

:hug:

 

[Whitneys story]

Jaret, I am sorry you had this experience. Have you read the articles on the home page? I found so much information in them.

I hear your struggle of wanting answers. I found patience in myself from reading the articles and reading how others have progressed on their journey. It takes time. Unless you are with a professional trained therapist and correctly diagnosed a plan for your healing would be very difficult.

You are a very caring and compassionate person. I personally would trust my questions to members here than I ever would on FB. If you are a premium member you can even ask anonymously here. You are never alone here! Hugs, Whitney

 

[Tanishq]

Thank you LC23, Shellbell. :hug:

I did feel I don't need them in my life. Getting help from them always sounded bit riskier for odd reason.

 

[Shellbell]

I agree with Whitney, very good advice :tup:

 

[Tanishq]

I hear your struggle of wanting answers. I found patience in myself from reading the articles and reading how others have progressed on their journey. It takes time. Unless you are with a professional trained therapist and correctly diagnosed a plan for your healing would be very difficult.

OK, I will read them. This is where I struggle most, understanding and making a choice in my life.

I personally would trust my questions to members here than I ever would on FB.

Whitney, Yes. I found this forum helpful understanding my own behvior, issues. Other discussion going on here. I have realized FB is all about surfacing. So I thought to discuss in FB groups about emotional healing. Now that doesn't seem safe either. I may get answer or may not.

Thank you for your advice whitney. :) :hug:

 

[Whitneys story]

Jaret, I am happy to help. As we all share experience we learn what has worked for others. If we are able to process the information we can use it in our experience.

Emotional healing can be hard. But possible! We come thru to this point with so many levels of past programming, invalidation and fear. I feel if we can allow ourselves to find our emotions and understand them it is a start.

This step is learning to write, speak or journal about our feelings. It is hard as we seperate the facts vs what we have been misguided to believe. Start with little steps one emotion at a time.

 

[amethist]

Hi Jaret

I hope I have read your post correctly, and have answered it in an honest and correct manner.

Many who say they are healers or can give you a reading are con men, they have no clue what they are talking about at all.

Whilst there are some honest healers and readers out there, what they would do is guide you, not give you the answers, they cant do that. Most of the answers are inside yourself. You know you need help, but they are not the ones to help with PTSD.

It sounds to me that you are look for answers and healing in the wrong places. Alternative therapies can help, but not the ones you are looking at.

Amethist

 

[Tanishq]

Yes, Whitney. Emotional healing is very hard. I had habit of pushing myself hard, now I don't want to do that. Emotions needs to take its own time and with all freedom. That can help processing any kind of emotion.

It is hard as we seperate the facts vs what we have been misguided to believe. Start with little steps one emotion at a time.

Frankly speaking, sometimes I don't know what items should be posted where. So I take part in particular forums. Feeling, Sleep and Understanding the goal of the day.

 

[Tanishq]

It sounds to me that you are look for answers and healing in the wrong places. Alternative therapies can help, but not the ones you are looking at.

HI Amethist. I give you a affirmative nod and you are understanding. :)

Thank you for your input. It is true.
Intuitive readers are like giving directions and also helping to read our life map.

 

[KP the nut]

(((Jaret))), I can't guide you or give you answers, but please take care. There are a lot of scammers out in the www.