Compulsive Lying

[Umo]

@cizumu, I have a question. What have you learned so far in this thread? Can you summerize it a bit?

 

[Cizumu]

@cizumu, I have a question. What have you learned so far in this thread? Can you summerize it a bit?

Summarization would be that I was correct to make this anonymous since I've upset so many people. I learned that apparently people have some weird.. deeper understanding of other people emotionally and I still can't understand how that works or feels. Finally I learned that reflecting on my past, what I mentioned early, made me both upset and sad.

 

[Ebun]

Summarization would be that I was correct to make this anonymous since I've upset so many people. I learned that appare...

Ok, but the more you unload , the better and easier it gets. As far as understanding, we are all connected in the universe. I learned a lot about myself posting here and hearing how you went through life. I realize not to be subjective in my assumptions about other people. So l can say truthfully, thank you for sharing your trauma, and if you need support, ptsd site is open 24/7. And if you have other things to unload, l feel your pain

 

[Ota]

Summarization would be that I was correct to make this anonymous since I've upset so many people. I learned that appare...

Think you were misjudged. Also you will feel pain when you unload the trauma you have been through so please be kind to yourself right now. You are feeling emotions that you just shut down because it was too painful. It's not your fault, you are a person capable of many things, do not let your M or D define you. Stand up and grab the control of your life.

 

[Ahabu]

@Cizumu, I guess I meant what have you learned in the thread about the orginal topic?

I am not upset. I did become upset at first but that was my issue and had to do with me, not you. I took a break and came back not upset. Remember that you don't upset anyone, they upset themselves. You don't have the power to make anyone feel anything. Therefore you are not responsible for them being upset.

Hopefully that helps a little. You are being honest here about an issue in your life. I highly respect you for that. That is what all threads here are about. You have a right to write about this as I have a right to write about what I am struggling with! :hug: