Confusedbrett
New Here
So I've been dating the most amazing girl for the last 4 months, she has been open about her past and her PTSD. Things went south between the Wednesday and when I next saw her on the Saturday its like a switch was flipped, going from close, loving, caring and loving that I was the same to distant, unresponsive to a cuddle, peked kisses, moody and acting like she straight up hated me, reading through here I see I've pushed way to much, I was confused and hurting so much and I thought showing I cared and was there was the way to deal with it. I made a non meaningful remark towards those that caused her this, something I have said in the past without causing issue and something she knows is more a figure of speech expressing pain and hurt, this time it led to me being labelled a violent, aggressive and paranoid person and a total block as I made the mistake of trying to tell her that isn't me(its the opposite). I know I've messed up on a grand scale and doubt there is a way back, I did wonder though if judgement and how a person is can be clouded/forgotten when going through a trigger phase and if the memory of those causing it could have been transferred onto me.
