Couples Sex Councilling Uk

[Finchlet2]

I love my husband. I can't have sex with my husband but I do want to relearn how. We can't get through this on our own. He has a high libido and is increasingly unsatisfied as I am increasingly unable to provide him relief. I lived abused and neglected u ntill i was fifteen then spent most of the next ten years bringing up my beautifull children on the streets where I was retraumatized on several occasions u ntill finally getting into shared accommodation last year. My husband has lived through his fair share of trauma as he is 14 years my senior he has already completed councilling and although it still affects his mood from time to time it doesn't affect him in the bedroom. I hate constantly rebuffing him as I love him so much. We can't afford private couples therapy. Does anyone know of any help the nhs in England offers?

 

[illusionist]

You could look up the websites for two charities...Mind and relate. Relate specifically deal with relationship problems, so may be of better use.

I have absolutely no idea about waiting times etc, but I'm sure their websites will guide you into how to seek help, and what they have to offer.