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Survivor2Thriver I think what you're saying highlights the problem of refusing to make a distinction between PTS and PTSD.
PTS is a natural response to trauma that is found throughout the animal kingdom (including humans). It's the time during which trauma is processed and we allow the necessary physiological and psychological healing reactions such as shaking, re-enactment through play, running around to burn off excess fight energy etc.
PTSD is when our "evolved" human minds interfere with that process for whatever reason. Usually because the human race has created environments where we can't process the trauma naturally afterwards - for example, because of our age, dependency, extent of previous psychological damage, economic situation, the pressures of our culture etc, we're unable to get into a safe situation and allow ourselves to heal. We continue to be affected by the trauma, and possibly experience additional trauma as well. It can still be processed, but that processing is now of a different extent and nature because the trauma is entrenched.
If you don't make a distinction between trauma being processed at the natural time (PTS) and trauma having become entrenched because it wasn't (PTSD), then I think you're in denial. Whatever you want to call "not-entrenched trauma" and "entrenched trauma", they are two different things.
The "entrenched" situation is not a natural advantage to the species. Processing trauma quickly and naturally, then returning to normal functioning is an advantage. Suppressing the trauma, for whatever reason, and then trying to function with depression, anxiety, impaired judgement is not a Darwinian advantage. Particularly given the high proportion of "mutations" among us (using Darwin's word, meaning some of the species developing a new characteristic) which include deciding not to have children, self harming and suicide.
We experienced every emotion in it's extreme and still manage to find balance. And something else. Selflessness. It's a remarkable process
Balance and selflessness? Not me.
I completely believe in healing, and I think a change in consciousness is part of that. So is the down-to-earth footwork of awareness, acceptance, grounding, coping, protecting ourselves, learning social and self-management skills, and processing, processing, processing.
I don't think we're advantaged by experiencing trauma, or that the human race is. I don't think our "being healed" as such is what's important to the energy in the world. I think our process of healing is what we contribute - the work we do along the way.
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Survivor2Thriver, I notice in your posts what seems to me a token hop, skip and a jump through the basic healing work with all the emphasis on a different consciousness and enlightenment. I don't believe we can get to the light before spending the time we have to in the darkness. I think saying PTS instead of PTSD and calling our childhood responses to trauma an evolutionary success, is refusing to accept some of the necessary darkness.