((((((((((((((Cherryblossom))))))))))))
Maybe a lawyer (or paralegal?) is an option after all? My H needed some legal help last month for some benefits, and a powerful letter written by a very warm, kind, down-to-earth lawyer opened the door and resolved the issue. I'm looking at the bill from him: total cost: $ 135.00. (He might have just saved us from bankruptcy. Not bad for $135.)
Another lawyer saved us over $14,000.00 from a crooked accountant who was siphoning money from us a couple of years ago. His retainer: $300
They can help... Just a thought for when you're up against a barrier... ((((((((((((Cherryblossom)))))))))))
Sending you much love, hugs and a lot of chocolate from my heart to yours,
Deer