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Original poster. ( the person who started the thread)
It’s my understanding not all counsellors in uk have to be registered, qualified or licensed. That courses to be a counsellor can be online, or day or weekend courses. Not all ’therapists’ are equal in attainment and standards.
Let alone approach.
I discussed with my therapist ( a qualified and registered therapist) what was privileged information here in UK.
1. I am not allowed to socialise with her with the guidelines of who she is registered with. This connection through mutual friends feels uncomfortable for me. A good mutual friend actually introduced us and if was discussed this would be an uncomfortable sacrifice going forward as we would not be able to both attend birthday gatherings etc. I KNOW my stuff is confidential from our good friend.
2. My therapist is required to telm my doctor if she fears I am suicidal again. She is required yo inform if I am at risk of harming my self ( and I accept in that there might me an untold risk that if I were a risk to others I would expect her To inform.
3. I am able to discuss CSA and SA without repercussion.
This makes sense because in many cases in UK you can report SA as just a rePort inform police. In my direct perdinsl experience this is possible with some SA in some states. In my experience in certain situations when some criteria are met this us not possible and police officers are required to tell the DA in some severities of SA. This still does not mean it goes to trial.
( rainn stats show this clearly)
So if thus all can happen therapists and rape advocates even cannot mandate reports in all cases. I do mot know how it stands with paedophilia but a report to a friend/ family member would be WRONG, police being only acceptable Route for an adult without agency intervention/ support as I understand it.