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He has not changed, he is mentally ill. She can forgive his acts. My doctor is working on me accepting his mental illness. Does it mean I have to forgive? Hell, no. But he is helping me understand the sick mind to better deal with my trauma. Trying to understand his way of thinking and those of other attackers is to pull the guilt of the attacks off of me. So I don't run around blaming myself. Hope this clears things up for you Scarlette.
 
I hear you I just see a big different side of it and thats O.K.
And Anthoney if a Person snaps and stabs some one the way I see it if it was me then I should Pay big time in the pin.
 
I'm sorry I am not sure what you mean if you are refering to people dealing with situaitions differently.then I guess what I have to say is yes it is true what you say about people change.butt I have not really witnessed it and I
Truely believe once a child molester always a child molester and from my experience the people around the situation that just let it go are sick.Maybe I am using the wrong definition.But thats how I feel.Maybe I am being to blunt.
 
No, your being honest about how you feel, which is good. I have as similar opinion upon certain types of offences, and as I covered, some people have no remorse and are repeat offenders, those are the one's that should never be released upon society again. Generally though, those who offend in whatever manner do these degree's will actually have a mental illness, which is what is normally over-looked, and is now only just beginning to be targeted in those who do offend of various serious natures.

Lets look at some people who molest children. When you look into the statistics of the offenders, some have no history and molest because they get some sick sense or feeling; however many have been molested themselves, never treated, usually have PTSD and various other illnesses, thus they know no different, thus they offend also. These aspects are also genetic to a point, and within being raised.

You see, not everything everyone does is within their control. Whilst some people do 100% control their actions, many lose part of that control to another illness, just as we have to PTSD. We are not always 100% in control of ourselves with PTSD, as PTSD when unmanaged has a certain amount of control over our actions and thoughts.
 
This is not a run of the mill predator. He tried to hang himself at 5 years old. He was self mutilating at 3-4. He has always set fires. He used to just go sit in the road as a small child before I was born forcing oncoming cars to swerve off roads. He could read a newspaper at 2. He is insane. She forgives him. His insanity may be medicated at this point or not, I do not involve myself enough to know. But I don't see any reason to make excuses for my sister being able to see he has no control of himself and find it in her heart to forgive him or that she is capable of dealing with things differently than me.

Some are just pervs who get off on kids. He isn't in that class though the other group has some problems too obviously.

Shit, I just keep hoping that crap came from his dad's side of the family and not our mother's!
 
Amen! The person that atacked me was diagnosed a psycopath and his side kick was diagnosed a (iam not sure how to spell it)socail pyscopath So tou can just imagine.How I feel.
 
You cross posted me... Basically what he said. He normally puts things in a more understandable way
 
maybeshe forgives him becuse she knows what may have happened when he was a kid.I can see thatBut it still our resposiblilty to get help no matter what we turn out like as adults.It is no one eles falt if we see we are not doing society justice by not geting help.You Have to exuse my wording I am just a DAMB YANKIE that can easly be misundersood.
 
So why exactly would she need help with something that she has already dealt with in a way that makes her happy and able to go on in life fine considering she does not have PTSD?
 
I was not saying she had ptsd.I just think if we make excuses why a peron turns out negative then we are not doing our selfs justice thats all .He sounded like a sweet chiled that could have been prevented fromturning out the way he did .Mined you if he was a chiled but now as an adult it's his responsillaty to seek help and no one thatdose not make that step deserves
forgiveness.It's just like a woman being beat senseless and then saying.thats O.K.becuse I am not around him anymore
 
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