Dog And Kids Are Scared

[InfinityBT]

Ok, so the getting upset over missing keys is ok. But yelling at me and breaking things because he's upset isn't.

From all of this I do want to understand it.

 

[Recovery4Me]

@InfinityBT :tup: ((((hugs))))

 

[Mytime]

We all get upset at times. But to kick a puppy or be verbally abusive is a choice. Look around the forum. And read,read. I have learned a lot by reading posts. Good luck, hugs if you expect.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Thank you everyone....I know what to do and I am creating a plan to get him out. Thankfully he isn't...

Big hug to you, infinity, if you accept. No one wants to see you back here as a sufferer. We are here for you if you need support!

 

[Elef]

I know you have said you are going to have him leave, but if you do end up staying with him...please at least give the puppy to a shelter before it is irrevocably damaged and unable to be re-homed. You are the only person that puppy has to protect it.

 

[ladee]

I am so proud of you for hearing what everyone was saying !!! You are a strong smart woman or you would not have reached out for help. Read here, educate yourself and it will help with the future changes you will be going thru... We are here to help and support you, so take advantage of this and use the forums to help you make it thru to a happier life.... You are being 'accountable' for where you are, he isn't.... that speaks volumes about your ability to get safety for you, the kids and the poor puppy..... we are here if you need us. Hugs for your bravery !!!!

 

[InfinityBT]

Just found out he's back on dating sites and it was when things were good....just wow.

 

[ladee]

So you are getting further validation that he needs to go. what is your plan for getting him out if you don't mind sharing?

 

[EveHarrington]

You definitely deserve better! (Your kids deserve better, your dog deserves better).

It's a bit upsetting to hear that there are people out there who use their PTSD as an excuse to behave poorly/abusively. I really want to stress to you that while PTSD can make coping difficult and yes, it can indeed affect behavior, it's never an excuse to abuse/terrorize someone else.

Now that this guy is looking for other women? I'd be worried he has been doing this all along. I hope you get yourself tested and cut him off completely.

 

[InfinityBT]

So he is out. He threw a fit slamming door to the point the house shook because he couldn't find his wallet. He wanted pity for his hurt hand and i ignored it. He sent me a text that I'm like talking to a wall. I then tried to explain his anger is too much. And then confronted cheating. He denied up and down....

He's out of the house now and gone. Kids are overjoyed.

Of course now im broke with rent due but id rather be broke than afraid.

 

[Mytime]

I know your hurting right now but you did the right thing. Now go hug your baby's and be proud,stand tall.

 

[Jet]

You did the right thing Mama :)