Dreams -- Irrealistic Or Not

[Charmedone]

I have never responded before as it was too painful... shortly after writing here, unfortunately the little boy died.. :(. It is so sad that he did not prove the doctors wrong, BUT his mum is amazing and the life that he did have was beautiful despite his profound special needs and him never being able to smile, he experienced all the things any 5year old would and MORE!! My favourite memory is of doing a sensory story-The ginger bread man with him and when I got to the bit "run, run as fast as you can, you can't catch me I'm the ginger bread man!!" I am 99% certain that he responded, he had bells in his hand and on that same part of the story he would jerk to make the bells ring...could be coincidence but I think it was him joining in! He truly touched my heart and many others too. I miss him terribly and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

 

[Charmedone]

It is a dream to wake up one morning and have children, my own children (adopted) jumping on the bed screaming "mummy, mummy" with laughter in their voice and joy in their hearts... :) that would be an amazing day!

 

[NIKI]

I would love to play Pool really great. I love to play Pool. I would love to walk in the Pool Parlor, strike up a game with someone. Then play the h*ll out of HIM. Then say," Oh, wow I didn't know I could play THAT good. hehe hehe

 

[p-no]

I'm sorry to hear this, Charmedone. I hope that eventually you will feel just happy that he was here and was able to touch your heart the ways he did.

 

[Britt.f7]

Charmedone, so sorry for the loss. If you believe in heaven, he is running and smiling and laughing. He is at peace. It would be so hard to watch a young child die. I couldn't imagine. My heart goes out to you.

 

[Changing4Best]

I have always dreamed of travelling around the world. I am poor these days, so it seems an unlikely dream. But that is what dreams are all about right? If we could carry them out easily, they would not be dreams, we'd just up and do them!

 

[discarded]

It has been so long now since I had dreams for myself, in all the turmoil of my life I put all my dreams out of my mind and focused on my husband. Now my dream is just have a dream again.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I dream of feeling good every day. I wake up and feel good. I am filled with positive thoughts and feelings. I wish so much for that dream to come true. I am so tired of feeling anxious and negative.

 

[discarded]

I hope your dream comes true Gizmo, you really deserve it.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I would like to do the bills without making mistakes. My checkbook is a big mess. I need to slow down and focus. I need to pay attention.

 

[99Phoenix99]

I dream of waking up and not having any physical pain. I dream of having a good immune system. I dream that all of that is fixed and that I can go back in time. Back to my college and travel abroad to China like I had planned. Before my immune system really crashed and before I had jaw reconstruction. I could take care of myself then and was in the process of filing the paper work before shit hit the fan and I was in the hospital again. Pretty unrealistic... probably not too healthy for my sanity to keep thinking about that either... but there it is.

 

[reckoner]

It is a dream to wake up one morning and have children, my own children (adopted) jumping on the bed screaming "mummy, mummy" with laughter in their voice and joy in their hearts... :) that would be an amazing day!

Yes, it would be... and it is. Mine are the biggest reason to live and carry on.