Relationship End of my tether

[dulcia]

Could you kick him out for a while once he is feeling better? He talked about hitting the road for a while -- could you push that idea into action to give yourself a break and some much needed space?

 

[A13]

@Sighs. Can't imagine how hard of a time your having. I really feel for you reading this thread.

:( big hugs.

 

[Sighs]

@dulcia - I did push it at one stage,but only got the whole "oh well, if you don't want to be with me anymore then I will go... " line.

He's still here. Obviously, he doesn't actually want to go.

 

[dulcia]

F*ckers! Like to talk the talk, but nothing more. When my guy gets into his "I'm done, it's over" rant, I want to tell him he doesn't have the balls to do it :hilarious: Instead, when he starts talking about how the relationship is over (and it's all my fault/everything to do with me) I've started saying, "You're wrong about me. And I think you know that, or you would have been gone already." I literally have the phrase saved in my phone so I can just repeat it each time we get to that point.