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Yes I was going to say the same thing, "blood patch", not pleasant but she would feel better almost instantly. Does she have a severe headache and neck ache. Take her to hospital, Always in my thoughts and prayers.....
Theresa
 
Thanks all. Took her to get looked at. Not a blood patch, but an infection of the bone called osteomyelitis. Very painful for her, fever, chills and so on. However. We're back home, armed with painkillers and antibiotics. Trust she'll be feeling a little more human again soon.

Jim.
 
Kathy,Jim & Evie,

We can only pray that she will get better, and this will be the end of the pain and suffering that all of you are going through.....

My prayers are with all of you. Give Evie a gentle hug for me.

Wendy
 
Jim, Kathy and Evie,

Adding my wishes for Evie to get better and my prayers for everyone.

I'm glad you found out what was wrong and it can be dealt with.

Hugs all around
Lisa
 
Thank you to everyone who has responded. Jim and I are quite astonished (in a good way!) at the number of positive responses and wishes we have received in this thread. It certainly does help to know others are thinking of us.

With Evie's condition, as with any serious illness, nothing ever goes smoothly or as planned. Complications do arise; it is the nature of the beast unfortunately. Yes it is difficult, however we are well prepared. We have gone through this with her once before. Additionally, I have neglected to say so publicly, but I am a cancer survivor myself. I had breast cancer 11 years ago, now considered cured. So I have some personal understanding of what Evie is going through, though her condition is very different from what mine was, more painful and more severe to be frank. However I do understand the feelings she is experiencing. Having had cancer myself I have the opportunity to speak frankly with her, and I have empathy for her moodiness as well, as I was the same way. Jim also, having dealt with my cancer, has more of an understanding of Evie's as well. We are well equipped, have no doubts.

Evie seems a bit better this morning, she is keeping food down and her fever has broke. She surprised us by hugging us both. She is seldom if ever the "initiator" in hugs so we were quite touched by it.

Not certain about Jim, but I may be offline for a couple of days now, as I am getting Jacob ready for school and it is quite time consuming, getting all his supplies, enrolling him in football, getting him registered at the school and so on. I hope to have everything organized by the end of this week. Best wishes all and take good care.
 
Oh and before I go, I must add, thank you all for the private messages sent to myself. They are much appreciated, however as I am now an editor, I receive a great number of private messages and I am still struggling to keep up with them all. So you will excuse me if I don't respond in a timely fashion. That does not mean I am not grateful for the messages, I am simply too busy at present to respond to each individually.
 
Just wanted to say thinking of you all.. and I pray that the rest of Evie's treatments go smoothly.

bec
 
Sorry to hear that Evie is having such a rough time. There will be better days to come and she is very lucky to have such loving and caring support. Hopefully she will get some much needed pain relief and the antibiotics take control of the infection. My prayers and thought are with your family.
 
Evie thanks you all for the kind messages, both here and in her diary. I relay all said messages to her. They do cheer her.

She is having trouble to walk. However. Believe I will take her for a drive today. As a passenger naturally. Discovered recently it is a good way to spend time with her. :-)

Jim.
 
Jim,

Hope that your ride, and possible talk was a good one.....

I also hope that Evie is up and moving a little better today. It will take time, but tell her that she will be raring to go soon.

Wen
 
Yep Wendy had a good ride and talk both, and another good talk today. :-) Evie is steadily improving physically. However. The effects of the osteomyelitis will be with her about 6 weeks. Besides which, 11 more radiation treatments. Emotionally she is struggling, but also improving. Forum break is proving most beneficial. Much more open with us, where before she would type her feelings here on the forum rather than speak with us directly. It is a major change - we are delighted to say the least.

Jim.
 
Forum break is proving most beneficial. Much more open with us, where before she would type her feelings here on the forum rather than speak with us directly. It is a major change - we are delighted to say the least.

Jim.

Interesting Jim. From what you have determined will you continue to place some form of restriction on Evie's usage of the forum in the future to try and keep up her willingness to be open and talk to you more directly?
 
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