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brief reactive psychosis

Jim and I brought Evie home from hospital earlier this afternoon. She was admitted for approximately 48 hours, due to a brief episode of psychosis. We feel badly about it, as actions of ours were the direct cause, however she is much improved now, though exhausted and still quite confused.

To explain, there was a family secret which Evie was never privy to. We had agonized for months about telling her, always putting it off because of her physical health and how she might react. However, by the same token, we felt strongly she had the right to know. Additionally, we demand honesty and openness from her, and we were beginning to feel quite the hypocrites, as we were keeping this secret from her. She has reached a point in her PTSD healing process where this information (the secret) will be vital for her continued healing. So, along with Anthony's and Dr. Roerich's helpful advice (thank you so much to the pair of you!), we told her, this past weekend.

Her reaction was not what we were expecting. We were bracing ourselves for rage, extreme anger or a similar outburst. Instead Evie fainted several times, was very confused and disoriented, and after a few hours, disorganized in her speech patterns. From my clinical experience, I suspected she was having a psychotic break, so we took her to hospital, where my suspicions were confirmed. Her diagnosis was a brief reactive psychosis due to extreme stress. She was treated with heavy does of antipsychotics for 2 days, to bring her out of the psychosis. Florid psychosis is dangerous in a person as young as Evie, it can cause permanent brain damage. So bringing her out of it quickly was imperative.

She is herself again now. We brought her home this afternoon, and although quite exhausted and tearful, she seems glad to know the information. I will not share the "secret" here, it is Evie's to share if and when she feels ready. We are simply relieved she is all right after her 2 day ordeal, and are still struggling with some guilt over telling her. However, by all accounts it was for the best. We shall see how Evie responds in the next few days, but we are hopeful things will be well. We look forward to her having a much brighter future, now that she knows this information and can continue with her PTSD healing.
 
Kathy,

All of us can sit here and tell you not to beat up on yourself for withholding information from Evie. We can all tell you that you did what you felt was right at the time. We can tell you a lot of things, but you have to believe them......

We all do things that we feel are the best at the time, even if they feel wrong. We all make decisions based on things sometimes out of our control. We do things because of love and true concern for the other person....So please don't feel that you need to explain anything...You and Jim did what you felt was best for Evie. You did it out of love and concern. End of story in my book.....

I hope with all my heart that this will help Evie to continue to heal with her emotional struggles with PTSD. She is a sweet kid, with a nasty temper...LOL!!!!!! But sweet non the less. She deserves to be happy, and to have a life filled with happiness and love... Not torture, and nightmares.....

Please tell her that when she is feeling better, I will send her more BORING videos of Pittsfield, and our wonderful cultural life here...GAG!!!!!!!

Hugs to ALL of you, and I do truly hope that all of you can get some well deserved rest soon....

Many hugs,

Wendy
 
Kathy,

I'm so sorry to hear about this very, very difficult episode. I can certainly understand how you and Jim felt re. the need to disclose. I'm also so sorry to hear about its effect on Evie. Yet, as Wendy said, we do what we think is best at the time, with our human imperfections. You two made the best decision you could and with input you gathered from trusted, informed others. I'm praying it all works out to the good, believing that God (or Whomever) draws straight with our crooked lines.

Hodge
 
Much appreciated. It was a difficult couple of days. However. In the grand scheme of things, this is much better for Evie. Myself, I am relieved she knows it. Big weight off my shoulders. And. She deserved the truth. Believe she will accept it completely, given time.

Jim.
 
I'm glad for you, Jim. And I'm praying Evie incorporates the knowledge in a healthy way soon. My best wishes to you all.
 
I so wish they gave out handbooks at the hospital when you bring home your first child.. HOW TO BE A PARENT! LOL I'll never understand how one of the most important jobs in life we could have "being a parent" doesn't come with directions!! It seems like there are alwase things that come up and we do what we think - feel is best.. never knowing if it is or not! Guess thats just part of being a parent.. I do think when you love the child and you do the best you possibly can.. then it will all work out in the end. There is no "right" or "wrong" way to do things when your unsure.. just have to go with what you feel is right! Hope everything gets better soon!
 
Thank you again all. Yes Damiea a handbook would be wonderful, I would be first in line to purchase it! :biggrin: Jodee thank you once more for Plats, Evie loves him. She wishes to purchase all manner of clothes, accessories and furniture for him. Seems rather silly, however she is very excited about it, and it is good to see her happy about something. Now that she has also received a bear (name yet to be announced) from Nicolette and Anthony, she wants to dress up that bear as well! Perhaps she will take some photographs once she feels up to it.
 
Please give Evie my best wishes and I have been praying for her recovery! Take good care, all of you! I am sorry it has been a rough week. There will be better days to come, at least the treatment was started that means it will soon be over. i hope she has her pain under control. There are a lot of things to help with nausea, We used to give haldol (also an antipsychotic but effective for nausea due to chemo) I know it was useful for most patients that i gave it too. There is also a patch that Evie can place behind her ear it is called scopolomine and that is also useful and you can buy that over the counter without a doctors order. Just a little info as i am a cancer nurse. I am thinking of you all.
 
Yes Jen she is very much enjoying the platypus and bear. I had no idea they would be so cheering to her, however I cannot argue with success! I am indeed pleased she has something that makes her happy and keeps her occupied.

Thank you Pandora, Evie was on Haldol briefly this weekend to bring her out of her psychosis, however it is her wish and ours that she not be on any antipsychotics for an extended period of time. She has had nothing but bad luck with psychotropics; either they make her physically ill, or they make her suicidal. So we have been trying to avoid them. However, that is interesting that Haldol is effective for nausea, no one has mentioned this or the patch you speak of. I will definitely make inquiries, thank you for the suggestions.
 
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