Sufferer falsely accused

[michelle2025]

I'm about 11, my cousin takes my hands and puts them on her breasts. she calls it massage. You know what a boy and a girl are up especially at that age. My dad informs her dad. Her parents tell me I should think hard about what I have done. Her brother now thinks he has the right to get other boy cousins to hold me while he fondles me. I get a warning that I will get more if I go near any of the girls.
I'm also autistic and have trouble speaking. Transgender.

 

[Riley Jones]

I'm about 11, my cousin takes my hands and puts them on her breasts. she calls it massage. You know what a boy and a girl are up especially at that age. My dad informs her dad. Her parents tell me I should think hard about what I have done. Her brother now thinks he has the right to get other boy cousins to hold me while he fondles me. I get a warning that I will get more if I go near any of the girls.
I'm also autistic and have trouble speaking. Transgender.

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[michelle2025]

I have been in and out of therapy. One therapist thinks I actually got caught having sex with her, that was back in the 1980s.

 

[Sideways]

Welcome to the forum:)

 

[parrotthepolly]

Welcome. Sorry they didn't believe you, that must be hard to accept. :(

 

[michelle2025]

I need to add a little bit here. I now understand that I am dealing with a narcissist. When we returned to the house, my dad says he knows what we were doing. He also said he informed her parents. He asked how it felt. I thought of the skinny dipping and the sun on my back.
I said it felt good. I just confessed to statutory rape.

 

[Sideways]

I just confessed to statutory rape.

Not based on what you’ve disclosed here, unless the jurisdiction has a very unusual offence.

 

[michelle2025]

My dad told me later that because she was underage, it was statutory rape. Sorry, my autism interferes, and I forget to write clearly. He assumed we were sexually involved. I wonder if he also assumed that now he could hold the threat of jail over me, being that he was a police officer.

 

[Sideways]

My dad told me later that because she was underage, it was statutory rape.

Yeah, sounds like he’s got his wires crossed about what actually occurred.

Even if you were an adult at the time, it wouldn’t be rape, or statutory rape. Rape typically requires sexual penetration.

Given you were both young kids at the time, in a lot (most?) western jurisdictions it wouldn’t even qualify as a criminal offence. For either of you.

 

[michelle2025]

Put it this way. As an eleven year old child, I do not know that touching is not rape. To put things into perspective, that was back in about 1960. Now that I am learning about the narcissist, I am thinking that the accusation had a specific purpose. That purpose being to break up the friendship I had with my cousin. Plus now he had bragging rights, his feminine boy proved to be a man, by being with a girl.
Unknown to him, his feminine boy was feminine because of a hormone problem, and it was impossible for him to have sex with anyone.