Feeling Low After T Session

[Marylost]

Feel so all over the place. Have to go on a waiting list to see rape crisis people about advice on whether I can take perp to court or not. My bf hasn't asked me how my session went sitting at home alone feeling pretty down.

 

[NoWhereKnowWhere]

:hug: If you accept them. Yeah no wonder you feel all over the place. I hope you'll be ok. Xx

 

[Marylost]

Thanks @NoWhereKnowWhere. So sad that the waiting list is so long, means the same thing has happened to a lot of people. With little understanding from my bf, feeling extra alone. Wish I could just not think about it all the time.

 

[Deleted member 29920]

:hug: if you need them marylost, I'm sorry you have to wait, I did too

 

[Ocean5]

waiting list

That is seriously messed-up!

If things get too bad consider calling a crisis hotline - just to talk to someone. Not sure what is available in your country, but there are several in U.S. You can always use Skype to call them. I can send you one number.

 

[Marylost]

My t is great. He just explained how hard it can be to take on a rape case and I have to talk to the rape crisis people for assessment as to see whether or not we'd have a case or secondly if I'd be strong enough to take it on. This is the second guy who abused me more than once and lives close by. Will be moving 1.5 miles away soon, will keep ye posted on that too.

One thing that came up in the session too was my bf dismissing my feelings, he hasn't asked me about my t session at all. My mother is terminally ill so do I really want to take this on, or is that selfish, or will he reoffend?

I'll be on a waiting list for 8-9 months to meet with the rape crisis counsellors. How sad that it's that long. Just shows you how common abuse is. Sorry for rambling. I'm a mess today. Thanks for asking x

 

[Marylost]

It's messed up to be on a waiting list in the first place

 

[Ocean5]

@Marylost I'm glad you have a great therapist.

8-9 months - wow

Hope you feel better - tomorrow is a new day.

“Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow.”
― Mary Anne Radmacher

 

[Marylost]

Thanks @Ocean5 ill do better tomorrow, lots of tears today, but I guess that's healing too. Thanks for being so kind

 

[Ocean5]

@Marylost You're welcome. If you accept *hug* or *pat on back*

 

[Marylost]

Of course I do, thank you so much

 

[Laurie2001]

That is horrible. I'm glad you t is good. Maybe, you should tell your boyfriend you need him to ask. Sometimes they don't know what todo. If that's the case, maybe he'll be able to respond to what you need if you tell him. I'm sorry this happened to you!!