General Found The Man Who Molested My Daughter.

[anthony]

If it was my child, I would want some alone time in a room with the molesting prick.... just me though. The molester wouldn't be so happy after that....

 

[Jim]

Yep would think most parents feel thusly Anthony. Can't imagine not feeling that way to be honest. There is some relief too in talking about it.

Jim.

 

[anthony]

Yer mate... I can't fathom your frustration because it hasn't happened to me, but I can gauge a good idea from how I feel about it already IF it did happen to one of my children. I know I would really struggle not killing them to be perfectly honest, spending my life in jail because they hurt my children of such a nature. I know it wouldn't be pretty if anyone every touched one of my children... I would likely have to be restrained from them if ever coming face to face with them. Likely the best option would simply never put the person near me, or I would be going to jail for murder and they would be dead for touching my child. I can gauge the level of frustration just from what I feel about such a thing occurring to my own children mate....

You have my email Jim if you need to chat with me.... use it if you don't want to discuss in public mate.

 

[2quilt]

I would want you to prosecute. I am a rape survivor, and the police refused to help me or even take the evidence i had because they were friends with the man. I have never forgiven the police for that.
It would be very difficult for me to let that man go to work in the morning if I knew where he lived. I am one vengeful, vigilante bitch.
You will be saving countless other children for PTSD and possible suicide, Jim. Do it for me.

 

[Jim]

Anthony, much appreciated for the offer to speak privately. May take you up on it.

2quilt, appreciated also for your story and sentiment. Evie says she is fine with our involvement. So. No worries. I intend to pursue this. You are now officially included in the list of reasons. :-)

Jim.

 

[Jim]

Brief update. We now have 12 families interested in pursuing this. Met with some just yesterday, as I am in Canada currently. Others thinking about it, and more yet who have been contacted. Believe we will have a strong case.

Jim.

 

[anthony]

Good stuff mate... another predator hopefully behind bars.... fingers and toes crossed.

 

[Marlene]

Jim,

I've not made any posts on this thread mainly due to the fact that this subject really hits close to home for me. Actually, the first time I saw the thread name it was like a punch in the chest. I have followed it, though.

But if you can help put this sick son of a bitch away and save other children from suffering what a lot here have suffered...then please do it! I'm with 2quilt, do it for me and for the rest of us who never have and never will have justice for ourselves against the people who hurt us.

Lisa

 

[Deleted member 541]

Jim,

I too agree.....If you can stop just this one man, think of how many children that you will save from going through what he has already done to others....

I applaude you, Kathy and all of the other families that have come together to have a strong voice.


I wish you all well......

 

[Jim]

Long overdue update on this... we now have an initial court date set for mid 2009. Christ how these things are drawn out! Evie is having mixed feelings, not certain she wants to testify any longer. However. She still has much time to decide. Not pressuring her. And. Several others have agreed to sworn statements and testifying. Hoping for the best as always.

Jim.

 

[FlameTachiku]

Jim,

I also appreciate the update. Thank you, it is a bit of justice for all. I am glad someone has the courage at a time that it will make a difference in protecting others. It also makes a difference in helping many of us to heal. Your pain must be insane. As a survivor i want to personally say thank you, and please be careful of your own wellbeing.

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[cragger65]

Jim, I've jsut become aware of this thread, I am fairly new, and I am so impressed with what you have done so far. It must be exhausting and at times, infuriating work. I have had my own experiences with the legal process. For the sake of the people he has hurt in the past, not least of which is your own flesh and blood, and the children he may be interefering with now what you're doing is nothing less than heroic in my opinion.