Genital Surgery: Ever Heard Of Hypospadias?

[lostforgottensoul]

Any suggestions how we might differentiate the word "sensitive" as to painful or pleasurable without too many syllables? Thanks.

What do you mean too many syllables? I should go google the issue, have no clue what it is but figured from "taking over" a thread (i hate that thats even a thing here; i call it conversing) called "botched circumsision" that it was an issue with forskin hense why i popped in here about this gagket thing i saw to regrow forskin. Not a clue if that would work for your situation but the guys said it totally gets the sensitivity and pleasure back (prob not all but they said a lot) back.

 

[stillstanding2]

too many syllables?

What I was asking @Anarchy was what simple words we could use instead of "sensitivity," which can mean both pleasure and pain He and I have used that word to mean both pain and pleasure, sometimes in the same paragraph, And we might be confusing people. It was not a reflection on you.

About the "irresponsibility" remark, I had just triggered myself about something unrelated to the thread, and needed to take a break. I still feel awful, but I'm going to bed. Good night.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

What I was asking @Anarchy was what simple words we could use instead of "sens...

Ah ok, that makes sense.

im sorry you feel so bad! If you need to talk (though im female i totally 'get' men's issues as much as a female can) my message box is always open!

Good night! :hug:

 

[Mit]

Personally I am dismayed to read where this thread has ended up.

I can't complain because I'm not the OP, but it just so happens that the thread heading is about a medical condition that has wrecked my life, and it feels a tad disrespectful. I wonder how somebody who is looking for information and support about hypospadias would feel by the time they got to the end of this thread. Confused, disillusioned? Had the thread been about child sexual abuse I wonder if folk would have felt comfortable talking about porn......

I had hoped that the thread might be of help to me and anyone else out there with the same or similar condition, and it did to start with. It seems to me the opportunity to open up about this, admittedly very specific medical condition has passed, and I regret putting myself out there and describing what were for me grim experiences.

"taking over" a thread (i hate that thats even a thing here; i call it conversing

I don't think it' is a 'thing' here, but it's generally helpful if the conversation bears some broad relevance to the thread heading, particularly for people who may come to read it later, looking for information, support, guidance. Otherwise we should just label every thread 'random stuff'.

I disengaged from this thread way back - but I felt I should say something, having supported the creation of the thread in the first place. Call me over sensitive, I probably am. It just doesn't feel good.

 

[stillstanding2]

Personally I am dismayed to read where this thread has ended up.

I can't complain because I'm not the OP,...

@Mit, I'm sorry I blew it. I could have seen it coming. Self discredit..

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Personally I am dismayed to read where this thread has ended up.

I can't complain because I'm not the OP,...

Im sorry! I get lost in conversation; i did look & it showed @stillstanding2 as the OP & since he was one of the two i was conversing w/ i figured he didnt mind and even posted that to make sure he didnt mind.

But i do see what you're saying & didnt mean to be disrespectful, at all, i just got lost in conversation.

I absoulty dont want to make anyone else upset so please take this as my sincere appology! :sorry:

 

[Mit]

I was expressing my opinion, so I'm not sure an apology is warranted, but it's very much appreciated all the same, thank you both.

We all make mistakes (I tend to make big, life damaging ones).

Anyway, thanks for listening.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

I was expressing my opinion, so I'm not sure an apology is warranted, but it's very much appreciated all the...

Thank you! I tend to make unintentional and unknowing (is that a word?) mistakes here. Ive been trying to not accidently take a thread over as i did it before by having conversation and thats why i looked & made sure i was talking to the OP but you made a great point! Its best to take conversation to messages.

Thank you for reminding me and forgiving me! :hug:

 

[Mit]

Five years ago (nearly) my problems triggered a sequence of events that in the words of my GP 'wreck your life'. Because of those events, my closest friends, unfairly but understandably turned their backs on me and my partner. Ever since, I've been longing for their forgiveness.

My longing and desire for redemption is as strong now as it was five years ago, but forgiveness isn't coming my way from them, ever.
The experience has taught me the power of forgiveness, and it's made me a more humble individual.

So I am very glad to be able to give what has been denied to me. I think some wise soul here said if we don't make mistakes how can we learn?

So you are very welcome.

 

[Anarchy]

@RussH
Hoping your day goes well
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[Kintsugi]

This is a reminder to keep this thread on topic. It has meandered since at least page two.

@lostforgottensoul, you have repeatedly guided this thread off-topic in particular.

If this thread does not remain on topic, it could be locked, or those responding off the topic of genital surgery could be threadbanned.

Please use the report function if you feel something requires staff attention. Thank you.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

This is a reminder to keep this thread on topic. It has meandered since at least page two.

Sorry @Simply Simon i ended up pulled into a conversation. It was not appropate and i appologize to everyone for both taking it off topic and for conversing inapporapertly.