head f*ck is the word concerning intimacy. right now I'm really feeling that !!!!!
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AngelKeeperJ
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EXACTLY!!! I am 61 years old and gave up on intimacy a LONG TIME AGO...
Mach123
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I have a really hard time talking about this but if or not the sex of your abuser matters is personal IMO. If it matters to you it matters. I was sexualised when I was so young I don't think it mattered, but feeling like I was a girl when I reached puberty might have been influenced by the sex of at least one of them. What happened after that and why is anybody's guess because I don't know.
Hi, I am so sorry that this happened to you. I was sexually abused by another girl (who was actually my age) when I was younger. I conpletely understand the taboo that surrounds it..
If you want you can definitely message me. I understand that it can feel isolating to go through this..
Take care of yourself; set time aside for self care. And also make sure to seek professional help if you arent already!
If you want you can definitely message me. I understand that it can feel isolating to go through this..
Take care of yourself; set time aside for self care. And also make sure to seek professional help if you arent already!
Mee
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I only just saw this thread.
11 months ago almost to the day I was sexually assaulted ( raped) by a women, a friend I had met on line, known awhile, had many shared acquaintances with, a couple of friends and a confusing other situation.
The last night after a stressful day she assaulted me starting in my sleep. It's not my ptsd trigger but it's confusingly involved in it.
Because it's a women on woman violation a rape kit I thought would gave no worth and a third party ( who was the ptsd trigger) talked me out if reporting to the police the next day and said I must stay friends with her. I did for several weeks before accepting j could not.
The simple and sad resolve to this story is that I reported to the police By coincidence exactly six months after it hapoened. Reporting was not straightforward but list me lots of supporting acquaintances who felt I was making this up. I had to report to two sets of police. The first were dreadful,( believed me but were sort of... Well what did you expect ) the second fantastic, supportive and were believing. I just wanted to report but because of certain aspects of the sexual assault it had to go forward to investigation. This was not helpful in a way because if gave false hope of justice which in reality I knew was not a possibility.
Reporting and belief from police and DA office gave me the closure I needed from this incident.
There is despairingly little acceptance of female predation. The best statistical support is from assault in lesbian relationships ( stats on RAINN.org) which makes sad reading for our gender.
It doesn’t matter if you ate straight or gay imo; who you fall in love with at the end should just treat you well and be treated well. women are people; in a world where we have asked our equality is respected we have to accept this means we are also equally able to do the bad stuff. :(
11 months ago almost to the day I was sexually assaulted ( raped) by a women, a friend I had met on line, known awhile, had many shared acquaintances with, a couple of friends and a confusing other situation.
The last night after a stressful day she assaulted me starting in my sleep. It's not my ptsd trigger but it's confusingly involved in it.
Because it's a women on woman violation a rape kit I thought would gave no worth and a third party ( who was the ptsd trigger) talked me out if reporting to the police the next day and said I must stay friends with her. I did for several weeks before accepting j could not.
The simple and sad resolve to this story is that I reported to the police By coincidence exactly six months after it hapoened. Reporting was not straightforward but list me lots of supporting acquaintances who felt I was making this up. I had to report to two sets of police. The first were dreadful,( believed me but were sort of... Well what did you expect ) the second fantastic, supportive and were believing. I just wanted to report but because of certain aspects of the sexual assault it had to go forward to investigation. This was not helpful in a way because if gave false hope of justice which in reality I knew was not a possibility.
Reporting and belief from police and DA office gave me the closure I needed from this incident.
There is despairingly little acceptance of female predation. The best statistical support is from assault in lesbian relationships ( stats on RAINN.org) which makes sad reading for our gender.
It doesn’t matter if you ate straight or gay imo; who you fall in love with at the end should just treat you well and be treated well. women are people; in a world where we have asked our equality is respected we have to accept this means we are also equally able to do the bad stuff. :(
Mee
Diamond Member
I would like to tell you all I have cried softly for you reading this thread , and me, not because you are victims or I have pity, but because I want so badly for there to be changes in our society.
Thank you for sharing you stories.
Thank you for sharing you stories.
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