I've lived through the men telling me I need the permission of my estrange husband to tell me in order to get my tubes tied in order to prevent further pregnancies. At the time he was living with another OLDER woman, his boss, while I was living with two young babies, one very ill - him not paying child support and I was trying to be responsible thinking of not my children but of my children; and yet (!!!!!) I still needed a man's approval to get this procure done! Call me radical, call me paranoid, call me what ever the hell you like but I've lived it and that's after having the right to choose to have make the decision to have my 2nd child even though I knew the chances were slim I would be able to care for both.
Where does does anyone, let a man get off telling a women whom he is not connected with, or a women for that matter what decision to make with her life on such a very very important issue as this and ridicule her for it. "Slut, prostitute" really???? What's that make a man????