Can anyone share to help my husband support me through my challenges? We both want me to get better very much but I do feel a lot of pressure from him.
We tried to find something for me to do every morning to set me up for the day and we agreed on a shower at 6.45. I tried it for the first couple of days and then it felt very militant and unenjoyable. Now I feel like I’ve let him down. I’ve been very open about the struggles I’ve been facing but I just don’t feel like he understands. I really want the pressure off me to work, I don’t feel ready. New Zealand( where we live) has just entered a recession and I know things are going to get tighter financially. I just need him to take my mental health seriously and just listen instead of always trying to fix things.
We tried to find something for me to do every morning to set me up for the day and we agreed on a shower at 6.45. I tried it for the first couple of days and then it felt very militant and unenjoyable. Now I feel like I’ve let him down. I’ve been very open about the struggles I’ve been facing but I just don’t feel like he understands. I really want the pressure off me to work, I don’t feel ready. New Zealand( where we live) has just entered a recession and I know things are going to get tighter financially. I just need him to take my mental health seriously and just listen instead of always trying to fix things.