How A Therapist Should Not Treat You While Ongoing Trauma

[catjudo]

But have you really dealt with the anger issue or have you just not been put in a similar position? If you were placed in similar circumstances again (and not with a therapist, but in everyday life) would you be able to walk away or would you react similarly with violence?

 

[blackpearl]

catjudo,

Well I've told this several times already that I was one of those that didn't get good treatment and treatment at all.

I've been working a lot for my self. Yes I'm in control today, but I'm retired also so that means I'm not yet in shape to work. You know, it's five years now since I got my debut, before that I had like 20 years to develop it. I have C-Ptsd as well Ptsd or how should I put it ? It's not only childhood issues but else they didn't give a shit about... and it went as it did. Not my mistake.

Pleas, respect that I've really been working my self out of all this, with no help from others than my own will and power. It takes more time and we all need right time, environment and persons to help us to be able to fight our self out of it. I did it anyway.

Yes. Now I'm retired and no longer feel threatened by any doctor. Today I can leave the room any time even laughing. Yes I can get upset, but not like I was then because there is nothing that threatens me so bad than then in all my shit I was dealing with before. You know... I'm not like that all the time. It was an example of a situation there I get those different kind of reactions, but not without any logical explanation like I would be an idiot, murderer or something.

You understand me now ?

They treated me wrong.

 

[blackpearl]

But OK.
I think I'm done with this discussion. I will not go in to all details so you will understand me deeply concerning this. It wasn't meant that way. It was just an subject about bad treating...

Thanks all for reading and replying.

Blackpearl

 

[Freddy_hiding_less]

Hi Blackpearl,
after I read through this thread it comes to me that when I set out to do something important, and it doesn't work out as I hoped, I almost always at some point after while feel a loss, and with that sadness, my hope didn't come true. What I long for and need didn't happen. How does this work for You?

 

[blackpearl]

Hi Freddy...,

I just leave useless thoughts behind me and do something else with that time.

 

[Freddy_hiding_less]

What I have also noticed is that when I have that feeling of sadness or often for like half a day after that people smile at me and even what looks like healthy strangers reacts so helpful and friendly to me.

My conclusion is that, comming with that sadness is a relaxation or something that opens me to human connections. Thats just my experience, I can't just make it happen but when it happens this is how it looks to me.