EveHarrington
MyPTSD Pro
How do you deal with people who want to fix you?
I was in a relationship last summer with a fixer and it f*cked me up royally. I’m still dealing with the effects.
I now have a friend who tries to fix me. My core is screaming at me to RUN. I just can’t do this. Not now. I can’t be friends with people who try to fix me. I cannot get mixed up in that kind of dynamic.
What do you when people try to fix you? How do you react?
The last situation is still raw. I don’t think I can be friends with this person. I can’t handle the idea that I’m damaged and need to be fixed in order to be someone’s friend.
I was in a relationship last summer with a fixer and it f*cked me up royally. I’m still dealing with the effects.
I now have a friend who tries to fix me. My core is screaming at me to RUN. I just can’t do this. Not now. I can’t be friends with people who try to fix me. I cannot get mixed up in that kind of dynamic.
What do you when people try to fix you? How do you react?
The last situation is still raw. I don’t think I can be friends with this person. I can’t handle the idea that I’m damaged and need to be fixed in order to be someone’s friend.