How Do You Feel About Your Parents?

[Seeking_Nirvana]

Well a) I was in no way angry nor had any undertones of anger in my post. I attempted to be as gentle as possible. I wasn't questioning your motives, I simply seen what it took you a few days to realize, that the negativity got under your skin.

I also know how to read between the lines, and I know a getting even paragraph when I see it. You can be pissed at me or not, but next time just say it.

bec

It's not about getting "even", it's about "why"? Just about every time I post I sense undertones of anger or contempt in your responses. I'm not pissed at you yet. I was pointing it out to give you something to think about. I think you deliberately look for errors in my posts. Maybe it's a habit from being a 'former moderator', or because you have a problem with my style of writing?

What ever the case may be I'm not making that my problem, it's yours for trying to find something wrong with what I say. Why don't you look at that for awhile until you come to a realization. Or not?

I don't care either way, so leave me alone now, or I WILL get pi$$ed, and you should know I'm not scared of you or anyone else getting pissed at me here. I think we both figured this $hit out now, so carry on......

Tammy

 

[Seeking_Nirvana]

Tammy,

Perhaps, in order to get more positive responses, you could start a thread asking members to discuss people who have had a positive role in their lives.

That would be a good idea, but I have a hard time with being consistent. I don't think I want to start threads for healing purposes anymore. Besides I think this thread was more about me than it was for the group as a whole.

I generally just ask for help or give insight on other questions. I think I will stick to that until I feel there is something that I can say that will help everyone and not just myself.

Thanks for the input though.
Tammy

 

[Seeking_Nirvana]

To all forum members: I realized that I started this thread due to my own issues with the negativity toward parents. I want to apologize to those who I upset, and I shouldn't have imposed my way of thinking on all of you.

At first I thought it was a good idea and would help others, but then realized it wasn't helping anyone here and it was making me feel worse.

Anyway, if there are people here that want to continue this thread that is fine. Otherwise just let it go into the archives.

Tammy

 

[ladybug08]

My mom is an alcoholic - My dad is an enabler...home was fruit basket turn over. No peace. Things are still the same, except me, sister and brother no longer live there. We all left under fire. Mom has possible personality disorder on top of being an alcoholic. Always drama. I'm in therapy now...I have limited contact with parents. Check to see if they have not killed each other. I keep my distance to keep from getting dragged into drama. They had no business having children...they fought in front of us a lot while growing up. Home was not safe. As a teenager and young adult both parents fought me. Mom thinks it's funny, normal to fight.