Relationship How Reconciliation Looks Like?

[expectingbetter]

You should keep living a normal life of course, and let him know that, only I suggest not to describing it in details for him as I find it to be maybe too much for him to deal with on daily basis, he already knows what he is missing, he doesn't need a reminder.
The other thing is sharing with him that you are doing fine despite the fact he can't be with you, so he shouldn't worry about that,.

 

[Olivia2016]

It is ok to try to keep connected to him by messaging, and it is ok to write about your days, bu...

Thank you for your advice. I don;t think I can talk to him about the treatment now, because he find this intrusive and pressuring now, so at least I have to wait for better days, but I do want him to know that I am living my normal life and don't need to move on or date healthy men in order to be content. I definitely will not write about anything that could be touchy (not like I plan to do anything that could be touchy, I have a very boring life with a more than full time job and a hobby that requires a lot of study and time, so I am rarely doing anything too exciting). I actually feel that I provoked the breakup (originally he was planning a temporary move out) and loss of contact and all this advice to move on by my behavior, because he could see how much I was suffering from what was going on. I really would like him to see that I am continuing to be content and productive, that I can take care of myself and be happy while he is away, I think this would give him some peace of mind...

 

[Olivia2016]

You should keep living a normal life of course, and let him know that, only I suggest not to des...

Yes, exactly, that is what I wanted to do - one-two sentences with the facts of my life, nothing emotional, just to let him know I am OK and still there for him if/when needed. thank you.